Can't get over first love

[lipstick_kisses23]

I spoke about a lot a few years back on this site and ever since we broke up I've thought about him everyday since. I love him so much it hurts. I've tried everything to forget about him and nothing has worked. It's miserable really, trying to forget so hard and just constantly being reminded of him every where you go. I had to delete my facebook, attempt another relationship (turns out he never liked me any way), stop talking to the friends he and I shared, delete every single picture we ever took together, throw out everything he ever got for me... and after all that I still can't forget him. He was the best thing that ever happened to me and now he's gone. He told me that I was the only girl he ever said he loved and I believe him. I hate this so much. I think I'm broken or something.

sorry for the omgI'magirlhere'sallmyfeelings post :(

[James Bond]

I think that when you try to remove him completely out of your life, it's even harder. You should've slowly taken him out of your life.

Try to befriend him again by saying something to the effect of "I don't want any hard feelings between us, and I'd like to continue being friends at the very least"

The first love, and first relationship is always the hardest. Especially during the first few months to year. You don't mention how recent it is, but if its within a month, you should take time to yourself and organise your thoughts together and maybe participate in other activities whether its at your school (like theatre) or at home (like gardening). Thinking about him is only fuelling your feelings toward him

[notsure101]

I'm in the same situation as you right now, I cant stop thinking of her and the smallest things remind me of her. But the best thing that really helped me was talk to her as a friend and if you cant do that, if you have some pictures look at them every once in a while, it helped me. Just remember that the right person is out there for you and it just takes time to find that person.

[AzuPazu]

I for 1 wouldn't be able to do what you guys do.
My ex recently got a gf as well and honestly having no contact helps me more than talking to him.
It would make me confront it too much and I wouldn't be able to handle it..

[lipstick_kisses23]

I think that when you try to remove him completely out of your life, it's even harder. You should've slowly taken him out of your life.

Try to befriend him again by saying something to the effect of "I don't want any hard feelings between us, and I'd like to continue being friends at the very least"

The first love, and first relationship is always the hardest. Especially during the first few months to year. You don't mention how recent it is, but if its within a month, you should take time to yourself and organise your thoughts together and maybe participate in other activities whether its at your school (like theatre) or at home (like gardening). Thinking about him is only fuelling your feelings toward him



It's been 3 almost 4 years since he and I have been together, it's sad I can't get over it already. I really want to be over it trust me I don't like being depressed over a person, but this was one person who knew me so well and loved me so much. I never felt love like that and I guess that's the hardest thing to forget..

[lipstick_kisses23]

I am trying my very best not to let it get in the way though. I'm hanging out with friends, playing video games, meeting exciting people but it still doesn't work