Why does my attraction between genders seem to alternate?

[Faolan]

So I'm bisexual, but lately I've noticed that I have gay days and straighter days. This is annoying, and is possibly one of the reasons why I just screwed up a first date with my guy friend. Is anyone else like this? Why would this happen?

[BennyBen]

I think it's just how hormes work even some gay guys have straight days lol. Its frustrating I know.

[Miserabilia]

yeah probably hormones

[SammieRose]

Definitively hormone level. They fluctuate a lot while you are in puberty. I used to have days I wanted a big one inside of me, then others when I just got disgusted at the fact they exist.

It will level up soon, don't worry. Horny-ness, on the other hand, will continue into your 20's :P

[jaxian rhyder]

I'm notexactly sure wat it is but I gettem to

[GigglyAbby]

I too agree that it's hormones.

[Dunce]

Most people I know who identify as bisexual say it's not like "girls are hot, guys are hot" but rather like you're swinging on a pendulum going from straight to gay and back to straight. It's more common for bisexuals to have preferences than to be 50/50, and it's common for preferences to change too.

[joshM1996]

So I'm bisexual, but lately I've noticed that I have gay days and straighter days. This is annoying, and is possibly one of the reasons why I just screwed up a first date with my guy friend. Is anyone else like this? Why would this happen? humans change, our taste in music changes, or taste in food changes, why cant sexuality change too? as for why its changing that frequently it could be hormones. when it changes is it your feelings to the gender as a whole or to a specific person? by that i mean do you feel more attracted to guys one day then girls the next or is it a certain guy one day then a certain girl the next

[Twilly F. Sniper]

Occasionally, we all prefer to do different things. The same thing kind've applies here.

It kind've swings back and forth, usually. (It used to be like this for me, but no more.)

That is because you haven't quite made up your mind yet, but you really don't need to, because of the earlier statement.

[Faolan]

humans change, our taste in music changes, or taste in food changes, why cant sexuality change too? as for why its changing that frequently it could be hormones. when it changes is it your feelings to the gender as a whole or to a specific person? by that i mean do you feel more attracted to guys one day then girls the next or is it a certain guy one day then a certain girl the next

I understand what you're saying, but sexuality doesn't change. I will always be bisexual (or whatever I turn out to be), and my friend will always be straight. Unless what you mean by changing is fluctuating between gender attraction, since bisexuality is a pretty fluid sexuality.

[RoseyCadaver]

Your sexuality can change, keep that in mind :P. You probably have a good idea of what you are, your sexuality is just fluctuating. This is perfectly fine, I did this for a while and I still do :P.

[joshM1996]

[QUOTE=Libellule;2368508]I understand what you're saying, but sexuality doesn't change. I will always be bisexual (or whatever I turn out to be), and my friend will always be straight. Unless what you mean by changing is fluctuating between gender attraction, since bisexuality is a pretty fluid sexuality.[/QUOT

thats pretty much what im saying, and i feel like all humans are partially bisexual but just dont know it because of how society feels about sexuality

[teen.jpg]

That doesn't happen to me. I just naturally prefer guys.

[Nocturnal_Insomniac]

Being bisexual (or, in my case, pan) is very fluid at the best of times, and hormones make it a lot more difficult. Given the 'raging teenage hormones' don't normally settle down until you reach 20, sometimes even later, it would be best to just learn to work around it. As for does it happen to others - i think almost everyone has days when they are attracted to girls, and others when they are attracted to guys, regardless of sexuality. It's just hormones, and it's completely normal.