Erection problems? HELP

[Zeke]

Before I start, I NEVER HAD ERECTION PROBLEMS BEFORE TO BEGIN WITH

Starting yesterday I just couldn't get completely hard, I was about half, but soft. You men know what i mean.

I mean she tried giving me handjob and then a blowjob, and the day before yesterday she gave me my first blowjob and I was hard as a rock and it was fantastic and I couldn't wait to get it again.

Now yesterday I just couldn't get hard. Its like I had no hormones or something and my penis was just insensitive.

Today was the same! I couldn't get hard. Not even with a handjob or a blowjob. I ate her out for the first time today too! Even with a beautiful vagina in my face I wasn't able to get hard.

People says its psychological and it could be a possibility, as i suffer from extreme anxiety, some stress, and minor depression. This just doesn't seem likely because like i stated before, I was able to get completely hard with her before.

I can just be laying next to her and get a rock hard erection, but when shes on top of me making out with me and things heat up, it dies down. And I am super comfortable with her

I'm getting really nervous that something is wrong. (I'm an extreme hypochondriac)

If you guys have any help or thoughtful answers please reply, and No stupid unlogical ones. Think before you post, thank you!

[unnamed94]

its probably something psychological. ive never had that problems before (except when i drink way too much) so im not completely sure, but anxiety or stress could explain that. the fact that you were hard the first time doesnt mean that something else couldnt stress you out. a friend once told me he had a problem like that once and when he was with his gf, thinking about not getting hard while trying to made it even worse.

[pdidyking]

If you masterbat to pornography (especially all the time) then that will definitely do it. It makes your partner's actions less pleasurable.

[Miserabilia]

You were probably expecting her to give it this time; so you were just waiting for it, so you feel like you need to be hard for it, which causes more stress and probably the problem

[Zeke]

I'm cutting porn out of my life now and maybe that will help. It just doesn't make sense, why can I get hard one day with her, but the next its impossible for me to get hard the next. It's driving me crazy and making me nervous. It's like I had no hormones.

[jaxian rhyder]

Maybe its cause u do sexual things so often its not as arousing

[itsLOGAN]

happened to me. not really sure do some research

[SammieRose]

Many factors might contribute to what it looks like a temporary ED. Stress is a main factor that cuts down the production of some sex hormones. And once you notice, you get nervous and make things worse.

Also if you have been on any drugs, they might had have a side effect, specially antidepressants.

About the having a rock hard erection then going down as she makes the move, that sounds like a panic reaction from your body, you might get anxious or have so many things in your mind you want to do that your brain just crashes and panics. Be sure the more nervous you get the harder it will be to get hard. No pun intended there.

Ask her to massage you, make it a process to get to a sexual activity. It might be you need to relax and kick the hypochondriac out of the room. :P

[Zeke]

Many factors might contribute to what it looks like a temporary ED. Stress is a main factor that cuts down the production of some sex hormones. And once you notice, you get nervous and make things worse.

Also if you have been on any drugs, they might had have a side effect, specially antidepressants.

About the having a rock hard erection then going down as she makes the move, that sounds like a panic reaction from your body, you might get anxious or have so many things in your mind you want to do that your brain just crashes and panics. Be sure the more nervous you get the harder it will be to get hard. No pun intended there.

Ask her to massage you, make it a process to get to a sexual activity. It might be you need to relax and kick the hypochondriac out of the room. :P

Good point! I'm currently not on any medication, but I have therapy starting Monday and they will probably put me on it to control my anxiety, which i will hopefully try, since i denied trying medicine a couple times before.

I do over think things of course, and maybe im over thinking it so much to the point where I am not allowing myself to get hard. I don't feel nervous though, like i am super comfortable around her.

Don't we teens always have raging hormones? Why did mine magically stop?

Sigh :(

[Miserabilia]

Good point! I'm currently not on any medication, but I have therapy starting Monday and they will probably put me on it to control my anxiety, which i will hopefully try, since i denied trying medicine a couple times before.

I do over think things of course, and maybe im over thinking it so much to the point where I am not allowing myself to get hard. I don't feel nervous though, like i am super comfortable around her.

Don't we teens always have raging hormones? Why did mine magically stop?

Sigh :(

Stuff like this has nothing to do with hormones.
Hormones have long term effects and take long

[zeebo]

Probably psychological

[TeeGee]

I think if it just started yesterday and today, then it is probably normal. Maybe something is on your mind, like you said you were starting therapy and you have anxiety. If you're still getting hard at other times at least you know its not physical. Maybe you're uncomfortable with her for some reason? But if you're not getting any action down there for a few more days then I'd see a doctor because it could be a physical problem too.

[Zeke]

I can't seem to get myself fully hard today, and I haven't had 'morning wood' for the past few days either. Im so paranoid and nervous. I don't know what to do

[Zeke]

Stuff like this has nothing to do with hormones.
Hormones have long term effects and take long

And I meant like i'm not horny or have no sex drive at all lately.

[Miserabilia]

And I meant like i'm not horny or have no sex drive at all lately.

Yeah, that is weird.
Maybe its like a phase you are going through now. Maybe you just need to relax for a while and it comes back

[Zeke]

Sigh. I hope nothing is seriously wrong with me.