First time!

[edlloyd]

Omg, someone help me! I'm 16 on Saturday and I really like/love this girl, who is 13, and she knows that I like her, but she has a boyfriend! She is really pretty and fit but obviously we can't go out because she is already in a relationship! However!! She said, in all honestly, that she would give me a birthday blow job!! :O I want to say yes but I'm SOOO nervous, and I've never done anything apart from kissed someone about 4 years ago! And now I'm really self concious! Please help, what should I do? :(

[Coolguy10890]

1. She seems little too young for you if you had a chance to date her…

2. Ooooo she's cheating on her Boyfriend if she gives u a Blowjob.

[jaxian rhyder]

Not really if she gives him a bj and that's it it could be for his sp day

[Lost in the Echo]

Go for it. Honestly, she doesn't seem loyal at all, to her current boyfriend. If she doesn't blow you, she will someone else, likely, anyway. I don't see the relationship between her, and this other boy lasting.

It's her idea, not yours. If you want it though, go for it. If you're starting to have serious questions about whether or not you should do this, or if it's right, or if this will make you uncomfortable. Then don't go through with this.

[Rayquaza]

Go for it. Honestly, she doesn't seem loyal at all, to her current boyfriend. If she doesn't blow you, she will someone else, likely, anyway. I don't see the relationship between her, and this other boy lasting.

It's her idea, not yours. If you want it though, go for it. If you're starting to have serious questions about whether or not you should do this, or if it's right, or if this will make you uncomfortable. Then don't go through with this.

I, disagree, entirely, because, she's not, going out, with him.

She's going out with someone else, you need to tell her that what she is doing is wrong and that you're just as bad for consenting to receiving a sexual act from her as she is for cheating on her partner. She is clearly too immature to be in a relationship if she's going to do that to another guy. The only person I agree with in this forum is Coolguy10890 because he too can see what's wrong. I'm not going to sit back and comment on why you should be like "yeah dude go for it let her blow you lalala" when the fact is you're only 16 and you have the rest of your life to have these experiences. Your first time should be a memorable one, not just some affair with a girl.

So no don't do it, no matter how much libido you have.

[Miserabilia]

its a big no because she is much too young and already with someone

[HockeyLovesMe]

ya i agree ur in high school and shes in jr high so i would not do anything AND you should be telling her she shouldnt cheat on her boyfriend plus if you dated her she will cheat on you and what would your parents think about u dating a 13yo

[James Bond]

Make sure she isn't joking. Say something like "Still wanna give me a bday blowjob?" And say it with a smug attitude, that way if she was joking you can wipe it off your shoulder without embarrassment, and if she wasn't. Well, there ya go.


Make sure you trim very close. Girls hate when a guy has hair everywhere. If you are bigger than 5.1 inches, you are bigger than average cause the ever age size is 5.1 inches.

Another issue arises, make sure you are not over the legal age and make sure she is at or above the legal age to give consent or else you could be charged with incest of a minor.

[johnsmith1]

If it was a free, no questions asked BJ, what guy would say no. Although not sex, being faithful to a partner means not doing anything with anyone else. If she is willing to do this for you, how serious is her relationship with her boyfriend, and what would he do if he found out. If nothing, and it's not a relationship, you may be lucky, if not stay clear.

[Second Chance]

I would totally not do this, and you are setting yourself up for a problem.

First, the girl is in a relationship, and the only person she should be giving blow jobs to is her boyfriend. It would be really shady if you helped her cheat on her boyfriend. To me, for this girl to cheat on her boyfriend shows that she only cares about herself and not others. This girl is so not worth your time.

Second, at thirteen this girl has to be in junior high, and your profile lists you being 15 which puts you in high school. That is creepy to do sexual stuff with a junior high school kid, and you so don't want to go down that road. At least wait until this girl is in high school before you do anything with her.

Third, there is a chance you can get caught, and you would have a lot of explaining to do especially if this happens on your birthday when there are going to be a lot of people around.

Personally, I would think with your big head and not your little one, and don't do anything with this girl and find someone who is single and who's in high school to do stuff with.

[Rayquaza]

If it was a free, no questions asked BJ, what guy would say no.

Someone that has morals.

[johnsmith1]

Someone that has morals.

I think I asked for that!

or all the hormones kicking in and the thought of getting anythin sexual, yes it should be part of a loving and understanding relationship. Hence so many people on this thread are sayning doing something with someone else's girlfriend should be avoided.

[justin 13]

ED, U should not doing this, is totally wrong.

[biggyboys]

Sherman have been joking. Ask again!

[Lego]

Well what are you waiting for? Go for it... Or if you have morals respect shes younger and has a boyfriend

[edlloyd]

The thing is, I know she has a boyfriend, but it's hardly a relationship, they hardly talk at all, and they haven't even kissed yet even though she has been going out with him for about 3 months. And the age thing, don't you think that is a bit narrow minded? My bestfriend has been going out with her boyfriend for way over a year now, and there is an age difference of 3 years and 3 months with them, where as there is only 2 years and 5 months difference with us two? She is a mature 13 year old, she is also 14 this year, so it's not as bad as it sounds, and she has done sexual things before so I am actually a lot more innocent then she is. Don't make me sound like some kind of perve :/

[Ben4ever]

Someone that has morals.

I agree