My best friend...

[[[chickaroo92]]]

So,

as some of you probably already remember. There's this guy I like, and he's my closes guy friend ever. He has a girlfriend who I f-ing despise. I asked him out twice, just so that way he would break up with this girl (yeh, I am so selfish.) Anyway...

I'm moving in two weeks. I want us to be more then friends, but I don't want to ruin his relationship with his girfriend. I mean, I love him so much...[so much that I had a sex dream of him :whoops: ]. What should I do? I want us to keep in touch and all that shit.

But what if for some reason he starts liking me back in the same way I like him, and its too late?

[Serenity]

I'm like my mother in that I'm not big on "What if" fantasies. He has a girlfriend, and if you truly care about him then you'll respect that. If he suddenly realizes that he has supressed some secret feelings for you, then you'll either have to work out some kind of long distance relationship, or just accept the fact that he was simply too late. That's just life, it happens, move on. Stay in touch with him, remain his friend, but don't get hung up on teenage fantasies. For all you know, the perfect guy might be waiting for you when you move- you don't want to miss out on opportunities because you're still obsessed with a "what if" that probably won't happen.

And having a sex dream of a person does NOT mean you're in love with them.

[[[chickaroo92]]]

As much as I hate you right now...[no offence, don't take any].

you're right. I shouldn't keep my hopes up.

[Gumleaf]

valerie is right. it would be very selfish of you to try and break them up, especially if you are moving in 2 weeks. moving might be good for you anyways because it could help you get over him a bit.

[goin to work]

um ur leveing if he likes u u two could hook up and gf does not have to kno but the would be bad but maby it would give u some end to ur relsationship............................................................... btw blg rocks

[[[chickaroo92]]]

Yeh, but I liked this boy for like two years....
I mean, he knows I like him.
I'm going to be so sad when I move.
:-(

[Gumleaf]

Yeh, but I liked this boy for like two years....
I mean, he knows I like him.
I'm going to be so sad when I move.
:-(


you might be sad, but if you aren't seeing him all the time it might help you to get over him in time?