People think I'm gay and so do i (or bi)

[HughJames95]

Hello ,


I seem to get girls fairly easily but they always only want to be friends and it made me wonder if I'm hideous and ugly but that theory was disproved about two weeks ago when i asked a girl I've had a crush on for a few months why she just wanted to be friends and she just wanted to be friends and she said "why are you asking me that? Aren't you gay?" she thought i was gay and apparently many others did too . I think it's mainly to do with the way i act , i have very fluid hand movements and i sometimes wear light colour shirts but ive never had a gay experience but i watch gay porn sometimes but that all. All ths has led me to believe that I'm either gay or bi. but I'm unsure because I'm from a very Christian background and if they knew (my family ) they'll be angry . please help

[Miserabilia]

what?
Gay means you are attracted to people of the same gender.
Bi means you are attracted to both genders.

Its as simple as that, im pretty sure it has nothing to do with how people respond to your colour shirt.

[Bazinga]

Just because you might 'act gay' doesn't mean your gay. Lots of people are camp and feminine but are still straight. If you're attracted to men your probably gay (or bi if your attracted to woman also) :)

[teen.jpg]

"Acting gay". That's the stupidest thing someone could ever say. How the fuck do you act like you like the same gender?

The Gay label is losing all it's meaning, us as a community might need to come up with a new one.

But back to the OP, why does hand movements and colored shirts make you think you're gay?

[Harley Quinn]

The Gay label is losing all it's meaning, us as a community might need to come up with a new one.



Yes, because that'll magically fix everything you're complaining about, let's make a new label!

[teen.jpg]

Yes, because that'll magically fix everything you're complaining about, let's make a new label!

Or just ditch it completely. We'd be a hell of a lot better off.

[Lost in the Echo]

Please stay on topic everyone.

[Harley Quinn]

Please stay on topic everyone.
It's teen sexuality, talking about a label is a topic and considering the OP is talking about a label and how 'acting' gay etc is present, it's not off topic. Just saying.

[Lost in the Echo]

It's teen sexuality, talking about a label is a topic and considering the OP is talking about a label and how 'acting' gay etc is present, it's not off topic. Just saying.

The brief conversation between yourself and Myles, was not helping the OP at all. If you guys want to discuss the gay label, then do so in a PM. Please refrain from posting, if you cannot post anything, that will be beneficial to the OP.

[teen.jpg]

To be blunt the OP is quite ridiculous. You think you're gay solely because other people suspect you to be, because you "act like it". Tell them you aren't, and that they shouldn't judge you like that and make assumptions.

[jaxian rhyder]

I agree with myles just cause u act gay doesn't mean u r and also the olored shirt thing is just rediculus if u like say yellow or pink or orange so wat that don't make u gay

[Abyssal Echo]

hand movements and light colored clothes do not mean you are or make you gay.
the only way you can be gay is if you are both physically and emotionally attracted to guys. I'd let these so called friends of yours know you're not gay and tell them to quit telling people that you are.

[teen.jpg]

just cause u act gay

You completely missed the meaning of my post.

[nice]

I know tons of straight guys that do things that are considered gay and talk with their hands it's fine it doesn't really matter and it doesn't make you gay.

[photojared]

I'm going to say that your gay nor bi just be yourself and live with the people you love and like

[Cece14]

your not gay