Okay boys

[SweetSerenity]

I'm curious,

What do guys look for in a girl?
Cause honestly, all the boys I know only want one thing.


They only care about a girl's body, nothing more. And if the boy is attractive, they're still a jerk and only like "hot" girls. They're overall disrespectful.

Don't get me wrong, girls are physically attracted to boys a lot, but it's obvious we long for a good inner person as well, but it's just so hard to find.

So, explain, what are we doing wrong? Why do you only go for the "hot and easy" girls first?


This is not applicable to everyone, just the majority of people I go to school with.

[newguy98]

Well that's not all true some boys want that
And other want a girl they can call there own boys want sweet nice always there for them type of girls hope this helped

[jaxian rhyder]

Not to be rude but I'll tell u exactly wat I look for
A mediumly hot chick that is nice and kind who complememts my masculinity every so often
She has to be funny or cute and will open up to me with all her problems

[imcoolbro]

Not to be rude but I'll tell u exactly wat I look for
A mediumly hot chick that is nice and kind who complememts my masculinity every so often
She has to be funny or cute and will open up to me with all her problems

i agree

[jaxian rhyder]

Cool :)

[HowlingSnail]

Good looks are definitely a bonus, but it really is the personality that matters. I want a clever, nice girl, whether she's physically attractive or not. I'd rather that than a busty bitch.

[InFearandFaith95]

I chose personally over looks, but obviously you need to be physically and emotionally attracted etc to someone for the relationship to last.

But I'd rather be with a nice, kind, caring, funny girl than some 'the only way is Essex' lass with a personality fail.

[HockeyLovesMe]

I'm curious,

What do guys look for in a girl?
Cause honestly, all the boys I know only want one thing.


They only care about a girl's body, nothing more. And if the boy is attractive, they're still a jerk and only like "hot" girls. They're overall disrespectful.

Don't get me wrong, girls are physically attracted to boys a lot, but it's obvious we long for a good inner person as well, but it's just so hard to find.

So, explain, what are we doing wrong? Why do you only go for the "hot and easy" girls first?


This is not applicable to everyone, just the majority of people I go to school with.


well i havent rly done sex stuff with a girl but i am first looking at her face and to see if she has a kind face... doesnt have to be gorgous but just nice and then if she is nice to me and doesnt think im wierd then ya i like her back and then you see if you have things in common and stuff like that :)

[midnightstar]

I'm curious,

What do guys look for in a girl?
Cause honestly, all the boys I know only want one thing.


They only care about a girl's body, nothing more. And if the boy is attractive, they're still a jerk and only like "hot" girls. They're overall disrespectful.

Don't get me wrong, girls are physically attracted to boys a lot, but it's obvious we long for a good inner person as well, but it's just so hard to find.

So, explain, what are we doing wrong? Why do you only go for the "hot and easy" girls first?


This is not applicable to everyone, just the majority of people I go to school with.

You are doing nothing wrong at all, I think its just maturity level and trust issues. If they are not very mature we act on basic instinct and strive to impress our friends or we have just been hurt before but still want sexual intimacy but do not want to trust a girl any further than that

This is all my opinion I hope it helps

[SweetSerenity]

Good looks are definitely a bonus, but it really is the personality that matters. I want a clever, nice girl, whether she's physically attractive or not. I'd rather that than a busty bitch.

Good point :)

I chose personally over looks, but obviously you need to be physically and emotionally attracted etc to someone for the relationship to last.

But I'd rather be with a nice, kind, caring, funny girl than some 'the only way is Essex' lass with a personality fail.

Nice comparison :) Good points too thanks.



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[Perfectly Flawed]

I look for someone who has similar interests to me. Also my number one deal breaker is if we aren't on the same maturity and intelligence level. I have to be able to talk about things that will require similar thought in that area. They can't be easily offended either because I love black humour and cruel jokes (not targeted at my partner of course).

[Kmart2103]

I'm curious,

What do guys look for in a girl?
Cause honestly, all the boys I know only want one thing.


They only care about a girl's body, nothing more. And if the boy is attractive, they're still a jerk and only like "hot" girls. They're overall disrespectful.

Don't get me wrong, girls are physically attracted to boys a lot, but it's obvious we long for a good inner person as well, but it's just so hard to find.

So, explain, what are we doing wrong? Why do you only go for the "hot and easy" girls first?


This is not applicable to everyone, just the majority of people I go to school with.

What I can tell you is that if you gossip about your so called "friends" then it's a huge turnoff (unless he just wants you for sex, in which case he probably wasn't even listening to what your were saying)

You see the guys that like the "hot and easy" girls are generally looking for someone to sleep with, and and not an actual girlfriend.

On the other hand the guys that like the non-"hot and easy" girls are generally the normal guys with low self confidence, not the best looking or too embarrassed 'cos they have a crush which means they are less likely to talk to you and the girls get more 90% of their received attention from "bad-boys" and then assume that therefore 90% of guys Must Be Jerks.

Again I'm speaking generally. And I'm no expert, this Is just what I have picked up from watching others and having experienced certain aspects for myself

[SweetSerenity]

What I can tell you is that if you gossip about your so called "friends" then it's a huge turnoff (unless he just wants you for sex, in which case he probably wasn't even listening to what your were saying)

You see the guys that like the "hot and easy" girls are generally looking for someone to sleep with, and and not an actual girlfriend.

On the other hand the guys that like the non-"hot and easy" girls are generally the normal guys with low self confidence, not the best looking or too embarrassed 'cos they have a crush which means they are less likely to talk to you and the girls get more 90% of their received attention from "bad-boys" and then assume that therefore 90% of guys Must Be Jerks.

Again I'm speaking generally. And I'm no expert, this Is just what I have picked up from watching others and having experienced certain aspects for myself



Good advice though :)

[MoonMan]

Looks matter to everyone to some degree, and boys care about inner personality as well. If all we wanted was eye candy we could just jack off to porn all day without the need to actually talk to a girl. It sounds like you've met a few bad eggs and just assume the majority must be this way as well, which is certainly not true. It's easy to spot the douchebags who just want to have sex, just like it's easy to spot fast girls who just want to suck your dick, because they're the most vocal and apparent. It also could be the matter of where you're looking. Going for the quiet guy sitting at his desk, rather than the guy posted at the back of the club, is a good place to start. Girls are also attracted to status and power, not just looks or personality, so females aren't exactly innocent of being shallow either.

[InFearandFaith95]

Indeed, the guys you are on about OP are probably mostly douches.
Maybe you should look for guys that arnt just interested in physical apperances and probably sex.

[Miserabilia]

If a girl looks healthy in general, I don't care about looks.
I care about how she makes me feel.
Attraction to a person is not something just caused by sexual attractivenes.
Its about how they make you feel

[Kmart2103]

If a girl looks healthy in general, I don't care about looks.
I care about how she makes me feel.
Attraction to a person is not something just caused by sexual attractivenes.
Its about how they make you feel

Amen!:)

[PinkFloyd]

I'm going to be brutally honest with this. The majority of girls at my school that are cute and hot and all that are HORRIBLE to be in relationships with. Sure they're great for :whistle:, but other than that, they are complete bitches that think they are the best there is. The fact is that they are just ---- not.

What I look for is honesty, frendliness, stuff we have in common, brains, and Humor. Looks are nothing more than a bonus.

What the guys in your school want is a real life porn. That will never happen for them.

They are responsible for all the insecurities that girls face. It's really too bad. Sorry.


-Rob

[Miserabilia]

honesty, frendliness, stuff we have in common, brains, and Humor.
exactly

[SayahZeke]

Guys pretty much like attractive girls that aren't an assholes.

[InFearandFaith95]

I'm going to be brutally honest with this. The majority of girls at my school that are cute and hot and all that are HORRIBLE to be in relationships with. Sure they're great for :whistle:, but other than that, they are complete bitches that think they are the best there is. The fact is that they are just ---- not.

What I look for is honesty, frendliness, stuff we have in common, brains, and Humor. Looks are nothing more than a bonus.

What the guys in your school want is a real life porn. That will never happen for them.

They are responsible for all the insecurities that girls face. It's really too bad. Sorry.


-Rob

This.
Then the insecurities that the girls have about their looks cause them to persue the douches because they are giving them attention, just because they want sex.
Then they'll break up, and make the girl feel more insecure.

But this thread has proven were not all douches. :)

[PinkFloyd]

This.
Then the insecurities that the girls have about their looks cause them to persue the douches because they are giving them attention, just because they want sex.
Then they'll break up, and make the girl feel more insecure.

But this thread has proven were not all douches. :)

Thank you. :)

[Blablabla36489]

We look someone who will hug and kiss us.

[Liven]

I'm curious,

What do guys look for in a girl?
Cause honestly, all the boys I know only want one thing.


They only care about a girl's body, nothing more. And if the boy is attractive, they're still a jerk and only like "hot" girls. They're overall disrespectful.

Don't get me wrong, girls are physically attracted to boys a lot, but it's obvious we long for a good inner person as well, but it's just so hard to find.

So, explain, what are we doing wrong? Why do you only go for the "hot and easy" girls first?


This is not applicable to everyone, just the majority of people I go to school with.


What I look for is a girl that is loving, caring. I don't go for the looks because to me that would be a relationship that is not for love, but for lust. Because who knows, a cute girl may look nice but may be bitter on the inside. Love is not for the looks, it is about caring for each other and protect each other.

[tundravortex]

Now me I want a girl who is tomboy twords boy stuff but I still want one with nice long hair(pony tail pretty much) and who dosnt think there all that and dressing all sluty(not saying u r) but one that isnt trying to be all that pretty much

[Xandle]

Honestly, what I look for:
- I have to be attracted to them. That doesn't mean they have to be absolutely faultless in their looks, but I do need to find them pretty, otherwise the physical part of the relationship won't work.
- Someone who's clever. Intelligent. Not someone who gets good grades necessarily, but someone who has an intelligent personality.
- I have to be able to make her laugh.
- She has to be able to make me laugh.

Those are my main things. Looks do come into it, a physical attraction is important in a relationship. It's a factor the same as everything else, but that doesn't mean that it's the most important factor.

[SweetSerenity]

looks matter to everyone to some degree, and boys care about inner personality as well. If all we wanted was eye candy we could just jack off to porn all day without the need to actually talk to a girl. It sounds like you've met a few bad eggs and just assume the majority must be this way as well, which is certainly not true. It's easy to spot the douchebags who just want to have sex, just like it's easy to spot fast girls who just want to suck your dick, because they're the most vocal and apparent. It also could be the matter of where you're looking. Going for the quiet guy sitting at his desk, rather than the guy posted at the back of the club, is a good place to start. Girls are also attracted to status and power, not just looks or personality, so females aren't exactly innocent of being shallow either.

good point :)

[SweetSerenity]

I'm going to be brutally honest with this. The majority of girls at my school that are cute and hot and all that are HORRIBLE to be in relationships with. Sure they're great for :whistle:, but other than that, they are complete bitches that think they are the best there is. The fact is that they are just ---- not.

What I look for is honesty, frendliness, stuff we have in common, brains, and Humor. Looks are nothing more than a bonus.

What the guys in your school want is a real life porn. That will never happen for them.

They are responsible for all the insecurities that girls face. It's really too bad. Sorry.


-Rob




This is so true. Thank you.

[caliguy]

I think I am a little on the abnormal side here. The absolute first thing I look at are her eyes. They have to be able to not just let me look into her but they have to tell me a story kind of. They have to be soft and sweet. Then I look at her smile and how it lights up her whole face when she lets it out.
I will admit though until I turned 16 I would only date either the hottest girl of the school or the most popular girl. I think it was a security thing. I have to have the approval of all the other guys and I had to have the arm candy so to speak. THANK GOD I am out of that phase though.

[Alexpiloto]

Good looks and kind

[PinkFloyd]

This is so true. Thank you.

Not a problem. :)

[Haydzzz]

ahh well i guess its kinda true. If im looking for a relationship with a girl i do look past skin and stuff though, the biggest thing for me is they have to have a good sense of humour, you could look like anything if you laugh at my poor taste jokes or make me laugh the same.

However i am a shallow person when i go to parties and stuff. I dont no why, but alcohol and guys minds dont make us nice people all the time.

[Silicate Wielder]

Personality-wise i want a girl who shares my interests, and has nice yet perverted personality.

It's a plus when a girl looks good, depending on the guy's personal tastes in appearance.

Some guy's like a girl with curves, while some like a girl who is slender, or a girl with long legs, some like short girls while others like tall girls, some like girls with a large bust while some like a girl who is flat chested. All guys have different tastes but often hide their opinions in taste and lie about it when in public, some like large girls, while others like thin girls or girls who are inbetween

[AvMan]

Personality is always far more important to me than anything else. How can you have a proper loving relationship if you don't really get on well or talk to each other?

[lyrical]

Good looks are definitely a bonus, but it really is the personality that matters. I want a clever, nice girl, whether she's physically attractive or not. I'd rather that than a busty bitch.....

Sounds Like A Gentleman

[BrandonA]

Honestly I cannot stand a girl with a disgusting personality. Personality to me is the most important factor. You need to be around someone with a positive energy: caring, generous, kind, funny, friendly. Etc. Looks can be important but doesn't compete with personality. Sometimes hard to get is fun too. but every boy is different.

[jacobbillings9856]

Funny, talkative, open, moderately attractive (prefer cute)

[nevillee9]

A boy mate said this to me a while back: the looks attract and the personality makes me fall in love, I need to be attracted to fall in love.

I'm with you when you say that cute guys usually are jerks -.-

[beatlemania]

All I look for is a girl is a great personality, a good sense of humour and she has to have a caring heart.

[Miserabilia]

If I like a girl, I dont even see her as other peolpe see her. I swear, she could have two black eyes and two pimples on the side of her nose and I wouldnt notice or care, lol.

[Inzanethingy]

Well me personally I like a girl who looks in shape so she can do outdoor stuff with me like hikes bike rides etc. As for personality I go for a gal who is willing to do outdoor stuff with me and make me feel happy

[ihavetoomanyerrors]

Ok in all honesty you have to somewhat physically attractive to me/that person (don't deny it you know its true) other than that I just want a girl who is fun, has a good sense of humour, intelligence, has hobbies/interest similar to me, that can be honest and a girl who isn't insecure about her appearance.

[caliguy]

as far as your question is concerned you really need to look at it a different way...here is why...
Look at it as humans are just animals and go to the most basic primal instinct--survival of the species-- Men and women are programmed differently through genetics and have thousands of years of programming to overcome....
men---their duty is to plant as any seeds as they can to keep the species going...think about how many seeds a man can plant so to speak in a year...hundreds and thousands..and they could do it to that many girls as well...as to what the male is pre-programed to look for...breasts for nutrition, hip to waist ratio for birthing...they will also not seek out the weakest of the females either (weak in their eyes could be looks or what ever). Even if it were a totally ugly girl going after then man if that was an only option to him he would plant the seed there.
women---she really can only nurture one seed in a year (technically 9 months) so she will seek out the most fitting man for that seed to grow from. She will look for strength in the man (which again can be different to each woman) but she selects more of who she lets plant the seed inside her. you say its the inner person a girl looks for really its if the man is capable in your eyes of producing a healthy offspring with traits that the female wants to pass along.

[Tivhal]

well every boy want a hot girl, and often they have too high claims, but the look is not all, and when u love her character the body isnt that important ;) i personally only want a girl who looks good, not perfect, the most important think for me are the eyes of the girl :)

[Allain1996]

I honestly don't care if the girl is physically attractive, I mainly look for a good personality and honesty in a girl. One thing that I will share that sometimes drives me to one girl instead of another is that I have a serious thing for red hair. I don't know why though. Lol
I also tend to like girls with a very laid-back dad or no dad in their life at all because I learned early on that strict dads and me don't blend well. Another red flag for me is a dad in the military because my first gf's dad was in the US Air Force and he took an immediate hatred towards me and made it his life mission to make my life with his daughter miserable. An example: One night he came home and me and her were sitting next to each other on the sofa watching TV. After giving me the death stare for a few minutes while I tried to ignore him, he very calmly came over, picked up a pillow, and started trying to best the shit out of me with it while yelling "get away from my daughter!".

[Swagging god]

Good looks are definitely a bonus, but it really is the personality that matters. I want a clever, nice girl, whether she's physically attractive or not. I'd rather that than a busty bitch.

Exactly my thoughts sexy is a good bonus, but when the sex is done it's the personality that is what I'm gonna have to live with so I would like it to be pleasant. Also good personality makes for better sex.

[kylem1229]

2 words. Personality, and kindness

[Harrybaby4]

Not all guys are like that. I for one am very concerned with a girls personality. Looks do matter too but I could never get with a girl without seeing a possibility of a relationship. And for that i have to like her personality too, no matter how hot she is

[teen.jpg]

Not everyone who has a preference body-wise is a bad person. Sure, personality should matter more then looks, but it's only human to have a certain preference.

As for me, I really only care for personality. But I won't sit here and say I'd date someone I'm not attracted to.

[Matt_97]

Not all guys are inclined to just want the looks as everyone i imagines. Me i'm very interested in the personality of the girl. She has to a great personality even if she was amazingly hot