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Vocabulous
June 26th, 2013, 02:05 AM
my girlfriend of 2 years got hit by a brunk driver and died today. so long everyone, you won't be hearing from me.

Mob Boss
June 26th, 2013, 02:18 AM
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I know that doesn't even begin to cover it, but I am truly sorry for your loss. I understand how devastating it must be to think of life without her, but people do it everyday. The grieving process takes a long time. It does for most people, especially when the one who passed was so close to your heart. Don't act rash, though. I have no doubt in my mind she would have wanted you to live. If tables were turned, you wouldn't want her to act on impulse and hurt herself. So you shouldn't do the same. I can't imagine what you're feeling, but there is still a point. There is always a point. You made this thread for a reason -- maybe a last stitch effort to receive some words of comfort, or empathy or maybe even someone that's been in a similar situation. But something inside you knows taking your own life isn't right. We're all here to talk and help you through this grieving process. You will have to take it day by day, but with time things will get easier. Easy? Maybe not, but certainly easier. All the memories you two have shared will never fade as long as you're here, so please don't hurt yourself.

I'm always a VM/PM away if you're in need of help.

Conqueror of Hearts
June 26th, 2013, 03:13 AM
Oh dear, I am so sorry for you loss. My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine how you feel, but Bridge is right...she would never want you to do anything to hurt yourself. No matter how hard it is right now it will get better....easier. Try not to give up....just try to survive, it is posssible. She'll always be with you, in your heart and you will always be here to tell the ppl how nice and good she was.
Stay strong, we are all here for you.

Vocabulous
June 27th, 2013, 11:59 PM
hey guys. thanks for your help. i really needed it

Mob Boss
June 28th, 2013, 12:11 AM
:) Hope you are feeling even the slightest bit better.

Vocabulous
June 28th, 2013, 01:11 AM
yeah my life still sucks, but its better than nothing

photojared
July 1st, 2013, 10:47 AM
think of how she would want you to go on living, that's what I did when my dad died