First time feeling?

[SevenHells]

So the other night I had sex with a girl for the first time, we knew each other and were kind of together so it didn't come as a big surprise to us when it happened.

Anyway when it happened she seemed to enjoy it a lot but I didn't get huge pleasure out of the actual sex? And didn't finish either even though it was going on for a while.

What is this down to? Or is sex in general just over-rated? H e l p !

[notsure101]

The reason you may have not enjoyed it or finished is because it was your first time. I remember my first time I could barley keep it up and I didn't finish, and really didn't get alota pleasure out of it. I'm betting it was nerves, if ya get another chance with her again I bet it will be better. Hope this helps man.

[SammieRose]

The reason you may have not enjoyed it or finished is because it was your first time. I remember my first time I could barley keep it up and I didn't finish, and really didn't get alota pleasure out of it. I'm betting it was nerves, if ya get another chance with her again I bet it will be better. Hope this helps man.

Like he said, it is most likely because you were really nervous about your first time, too concentrated on doing things right, that you did not let your mind actually enjoy the moment.

My best male friend, who was also my first to his first, lost his erection twice during our attempt. So, it happens more than people are comfortable saying. Do not worry, you will enjoy it once you leave the nerves and fears at the door.:yes:

[Lost in the Echo]

Relationships & Dating :arrow: Questions For Both Boys & Girls.
This has more to do with puberty/sex-ed, etc.

[SevenHells]

Thank you so much! I feel way better now, thought there was something wrong with me,