How do you flirt?

[clueless_one]

I'm 18 and I'm not sure how to flirt. Maybe I have been flirting but i'm not sure. What/How do guys flirt?

[Synyster Shadows]

playful joking comments, compliments, and similar nice things are what I think of when I think of flirting

[Mob Boss]

The way I do is by joking around a lot, which is a really awful way because I joke around all the time as it is. :P I also compliment. But usually just by joking around. I also tease people I like a lot. XD Just be casual and I don't know...flirt. :P

[clueless_one]

The way I do is by joking around a lot, which is a really awful way because I joke around all the time as it is. :P I also compliment. But usually just by joking around. I also tease people I like a lot. XD Just be casual and I don't know...flirt. :P

So are the things bellow considered as flirting…

In cooking class, my crush and I worked together to make something. We both tasted it, and both of us didn’t like it. I told one of the boys or girls that ours tasted bad. She said thanks, we both made it, your saying that I did bad selecting the ingredient. I told her no and she was saying yes that’s what your trying to say. I then said that I felt bad and she said don’t worry, its alright.

I told her that her essay she was reading to me and another girl was good. As she was reading it she was looking at me and the other girl, she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it.

Is she also flirting with me?

She looks at me a few times in class (I catch her looking at me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

She yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class. It was also someone’s birthday on that same day and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it. She also then said that she put weed in the cake.

She touched/tapped my arm and back when she was telling me something about my schoolwork, which never happened with other girls.

Her hand was really close to mine (almost touching distance (maybe wanted me to hold her hand)) she didn't move her hand at all. (This was at the same time as the sign above this one)

I asked out a girl and she knew I asked out a girl and was surprised saying that I have a girlfriend. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone.

[LouBerry]

Want to know how I flirted with Seth, and how I got him to fall in love with me? I threw rocks at him. (:

[Abyssal Echo]

I don't flirt. I just be my usual nice self

[Vocabulous]

i use the tryed and true method of saying and doing nothing and praying she notices me.

[Mob Boss]

So are the things bellow considered as flirting…

In cooking class, my crush and I worked together to make something. We both tasted it, and both of us didn’t like it. I told one of the boys or girls that ours tasted bad. She said thanks, we both made it, your saying that I did bad selecting the ingredient. I told her no and she was saying yes that’s what your trying to say. I then said that I felt bad and she said don’t worry, its alright.

I told her that her essay she was reading to me and another girl was good. As she was reading it she was looking at me and the other girl, she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it.

Is she also flirting with me?

She looks at me a few times in class (I catch her looking at me).

We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

She yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class. It was also someone’s birthday on that same day and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it. She also then said that she put weed in the cake.

She touched/tapped my arm and back when she was telling me something about my schoolwork, which never happened with other girls.

Her hand was really close to mine (almost touching distance (maybe wanted me to hold her hand)) she didn't move her hand at all. (This was at the same time as the sign above this one)

I asked out a girl and she knew I asked out a girl and was surprised saying that I have a girlfriend. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone.



It seems like she may like you. I know casually touching someone while you're talking to them, like she did when she was talking with you, is usually a form of flirting. :P If she's looking at you in class that is usually a good sign as well. I know I used to do that when I had a crush on someone. Don't overthink everything, though. Why do you men folk think so much? Just casually ask her if she'd like to go to dinner sometime. I would tell her, "I know a place where where the food is nearly as good as ours.:P We should go sometime."
The worst she can say is "No, you told me my cooking sucked". :lol3: But, seriously, it seems like she's giving you signs and you're too busy trying to read them. Just ask her out already. Geez, people! Don't make me come down there and ask her out for you. That would make you feel super awkward. :lol:




Want to know how I flirted with Seth, and how I got him to fall in love with me? I threw rocks at him. (:

Haha, nice. That's true love, throwing rocks. That's adorable, Lou. :P

[zeebo]

I usually just act myself, then maybe push it a bit if I can tell she likes me a bit.

[LouBerry]

It seems like she may like you. I know casually touching someone while you're talking to them, like she did when she was talking with you, is usually a form of flirting. :P If she's looking at you in class that is usually a good sign as well. I know I used to do that when I had a crush on someone. Don't overthink everything, though. Why do you men folk think so much? Just casually ask her if she'd like to go to dinner sometime. I would tell her, "I know a place where where the food is nearly as good as ours.:P We should go sometime."
The worst she can say is "No, you told me my cooking sucked". :lol3: But, seriously, it seems like she's giving you signs and you're too busy trying to read them. Just ask her out already. Geez, people! Don't make me come down there and ask her out for you. That would make you feel super awkward. :lol:






Haha, nice. That's true love, throwing rocks. That's adorable, Lou. :P


Hehe, I know. We're cute.

[clueless_one]

It seems like she may like you. I know casually touching someone while you're talking to them, like she did when she was talking with you, is usually a form of flirting. :P If she's looking at you in class that is usually a good sign as well. I know I used to do that when I had a crush on someone. Don't overthink everything, though. Why do you men folk think so much? Just casually ask her if she'd like to go to dinner sometime. I would tell her, "I know a place where where the food is nearly as good as ours.:P We should go sometime."
The worst she can say is "No, you told me my cooking sucked". :lol3: But, seriously, it seems like she's giving you signs and you're too busy trying to read them. Just ask her out already. Geez, people! Don't make me come down there and ask her out for you. That would make you feel super awkward. :lol:

She touched my arm and back when she was talking to me about what I was doing when cooking.

Also when passing across utensils to each other, her hand and fingers touched mine and I'm not sure if she did it on purpose but i'm not 100% sure if it means anything.

[MoonMan]

Flirting has always been a complex thing to me. I can never tell if a girl is flirting with me during the actual interaction, unless she shakes her ass in front of me or something else blatantly obvious. I believe this is mainly because my common sense and awareness levels when talking to girls are equivalent to those of a rock. So I end up just being myself around them and hoping for the best.

[indoxyl]

She touched my arm and back when she was talking to me about what I was doing when cooking.

Also when passing across utensils to each other, her hand and fingers touched mine and I'm not sure if she did it on purpose but i'm not 100% sure if it means anything.

Seriously? Reveuse gave you like ten reasons that it all counts as flirting. I seriously dont understand what you want from this forum? You make ten threads with the same crap, everyone gives you awesome advice and you completely ignore it. Like??

[Piachu]

I really can't flirt at all, sorry. the last time I tried to flirt with someone, I literally went like "I like your eyebrows. Can I touch them?" I'm too awkward to flirt :(

[clueless_one]

Seriously? Reveuse gave you like ten reasons that it all counts as flirting. I seriously dont understand what you want from this forum? You make ten threads with the same crap, everyone gives you awesome advice and you completely ignore it. Like??

Can't I add things that i've forgotten to add in the first place. I'm not 100% about this flirting shit and even how to flirt. As you know i'm an only child and all the information i'm getting is from these forums and on the internet.

I'm mostly questioning the point where we were passing utensils to each other and her fingers touched mine. Thats mostly the main thing i'm wanting to know. Reveuse said that if a girl is talking to you and is touching it can count as flirting. What if the girl was talking about school work or the cooking practical the class was doing. I'm not sure about that. Is that flirting. Thats all I want to know.

Also another thing I just want to ask. If a girl is flirting, is that a clear indicator that the girl likes you?

[Jevon]

For me it just sort of happens

[James Bond]

Playful jokes, lots of friendly touching, cute little compliments, etc.

[ForeverTwelve]

It starts with a smile. If she smiles back, try to gauge the situation. If she's cheerful, make an obviously lame joke. If she laughs, she's not laughing at the joke, but laughing because she enjoys being with you.

If she's not in a cheerful mood, give her a compliment. If your gut says she open to a bit of affection, put your arm around her, and kiss her on the cheek, right after the compliment. I've made a few girls days with that one. I've also been slapped.

If she's really interested, then start teasing her, but make sure she understands you're teasing because you like her. One girl thought I hated her because I teased her, and I felt bad.

My crush and I somehow started an ongoing game where we smack each other, usually on the cheek, and run away. We chase each other trying to smack the other one back, and be the last to smack. It's funny sneaking up on each other, or pinning each other down to get the last smack.

[photojared]

just start a nice conversation and see were it goes to

[Cece14]

they joke around, and smile

[CyrustheGreat]

Trust your instincts. Trust me, guessing she likes you and she doesn't; ok. Guessing she doesn't but she does; never able to forgive yourself.