I really need some help?!?!

[Miserabilia]

Okay, so today, I decided to try and get to know my crush. (no it wasn't a date, I just decided to talk to her)
She is really nice and I talked to her and stuff, and we had a good time etc. (though I was really nervous and awkward)

So, if she didn't like me before (which I don't know) I really hope she is starting to like me now. I think so.

But anyway,
I have liked her for a loooong time now, and this is the first time I really... talked to her.
And afcourse I just wanted to get to know her a little, and not rush into anything, right?

Well, now, afterwards, I feel like maybe she did like me and was waiting for me to give like a signal or something,
and that now she thinks I don't like her! (which ofcourse i do)

So how do I get to know her withouth making it feel like im not interrested in a relation

[jaxian rhyder]

Just tell her blunt I wanna know u better and I like u believe me ud be surprised at how understanding people can be

[Miserabilia]

Just tell her blunt I wanna know u better and I like u believe me ud be surprised at how understanding people can be

Nope, that does not sound like a very good plan.

[jaxian rhyder]

Suit urself I tried

[johnsmith1]

Okay, so today, I decided to try and get to know my crush. (no it wasn't a date, I just decided to talk to her)
She is really nice and I talked to her and stuff, and we had a good time etc. (though I was really nervous and awkward)

So, if she didn't like me before (which I don't know) I really hope she is starting to like me now. I think so.

But anyway,
I have liked her for a loooong time now, and this is the first time I really... talked to her.
And afcourse I just wanted to get to know her a little, and not rush into anything, right?

Well, now, afterwards, I feel like maybe she did like me and was waiting for me to give like a signal or something,
and that now she thinks I don't like her! (which ofcourse i do)

So how do I get to know her withouth making it feel like im not interrested in a relation

Just cotinue where you left off from when you spoke to her last time. As you say you don't have to rush in to anything. Sometimes things happen quickly, sometimes they don't. Just go for it

[Miserabilia]

Just cotinue where you left off from when you spoke to her last time. As you say you don't have to rush in to anything. Sometimes things happen quickly, sometimes they don't. Just go for it

yeah I guess. My worry is though.,
that now she is thinking I just want to be friends

[johnsmith1]

yeah I guess. My worry is though.,
that now she is thinking I just want to be friends

Don't let it worry you. Give it a try. At least being friends is a good start :-). After that, you never know what could happen!

[jaxian rhyder]

True u could become more than friends after that

[Conqueror of Hearts]

yeah I guess. My worry is though.,
that now she is thinking I just want to be friends

It's always better to start as friends and to let that friendship develop into relationship. If she already likes you she is not going to give up on you,just because you didn't kiss her or did sth obvious....so dont worry, just take it easy and enjoy your time :)

[Piachu]

You should get to know her more, and try flirting with her too. If you flirt with her, she'll take the hint. Good luck. :)

[Miserabilia]

It's always better to start as friends and to let that friendship develop into relationship. If she already likes you she is not going to give up on you,just because you didn't kiss her or did sth obvious....so dont worry, just take it easy and enjoy your time :)

Yeah, but its alot like....
Ive known her for quite a long time now, and I basicly always liked her.
I just am very awkward around her all the time
and now I finaly got a chance to tell her how I feel etc and I just talked to her and I didn't really let her know anything....
But its so complicated,
because I don't know if she likes me, and knows I like her too, and just wants to wait a little too,
or that she likes me, and now I made her think I don't like her....
And on top of that, I only have one more week, then I wont be seeing her for a month....

:eek:
oh god please help me Dx

[Conqueror of Hearts]

U Yeah, but its alot like....
Ive known her for quite a long time now, and I basicly always liked her.
I just am very awkward around her all the time
and now I finaly got a chance to tell her how I feel etc and I just talked to her and I didn't really let her know anything....
But its so complicated,
because I don't know if she likes me, and knows I like her too, and just wants to wait a little too,
or that she likes me, and now I made her think I don't like her....
And on top of that, I only have one more week, then I wont be seeing her for a month....

:eek:
oh god please help me Dx

Trust me when I say that she still can't say that you don't like her....she maybe thinks you do like her, but she can't say for sure. If you think that you are ready to tell her you like her, it you think it's the time just do it. I get that you are awkward around her, but don't think too much about it, just let those words out. If you still think it's soon you can ask for her number, saying you could meet sometimes and hang out. It that an option? Do you think it's the right time? Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel...:)

[Miserabilia]

U

Trust me when I say that she still can't say that you don't like her....she maybe thinks you do like her, but she can't say for sure. If you think that you are ready to tell her you like her, it you think it's the time just do it. I get that you are awkward around her, but don't think too much about it, just let those words out. If you still think it's soon you can ask for her number, saying you could meet sometimes and hang out. It that an option? Do you think it's the right time? Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel...:)

Yeah I guess.
But there are some more problems though (long story, sorry)

Like, in my highschool, where i live, its not normal at all to like swap phone numbers or date.
You dont really "go out" (no matter what age)

And even if i did, everyone in my class would find out somehow and I would really hateeee that because they can be really rude about that.

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Yeah I guess.
But there are some more problems though (long story, sorry)

Like, in my highschool, where i live, its not normal at all to like swap phone numbers or date.
You dont really "go out" (no matter what age)

And even if i did, everyone in my class would find out somehow and I would really hateeee that because they can be really rude about that.

Well that's strange, how's that noone in your school date? You could start a revolution :) If you really like her just bite the bullet...ppl will talk but eventually they'll shut up. Just ask here if she would like to meet with you sometimes during the break (you don't have to call it a date)...i really don't know what else to tell you. If you like her go for it. :)

[Miserabilia]

Well that's strange, how's that noone in your school date? You could start a revolution :) If you really like her just bite the bullet...ppl will talk but eventually they'll shut up. Just ask here if she would like to meet with you sometimes during the break (you don't have to call it a date)...i really don't know what else to tell you. If you like her go for it. :)

Yeah I guess. thanks :