Bisexual but friends treat me as im only gay

[Jerwolf38]

Someone tell me what to tell the like i dont want to say f off but it pisses me off so much

[NeuroTiger]

Just be relax and try to change the topic each times it pops out.

[Lost in the Echo]

Just be serious, and honest with them. Tell them you don't like when they treat you like that. If they're true friends, then they will respect your feelings, and knock it off.

Edit: This would be more relevant in Teen Sexuality.
Puberty For Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality.

[Jerwolf38]

K thnx

[XxVeggiexX]

I have the same problem. I have some really good friends that are female, and we'll talk about guys, but sometimes i'll stare at a girl or make a remark and they will bash me and put me down for it. I just stood up and said that it really hurts me when they treat me gay when I'm not. It was so bad, however, that I had to tell them that it was treat me like I truly am of this friendship is over because they are oppressing me and I didnt want that in my life. Just talk to your friend and tell them how you feel and how you are and what you dont like, it they are true friends they will understand and change their behavior.

[AusBoy19QLD]

Just be serious, and honest with them. Tell them you don't like when they treat you like that. If they're true friends, then they will respect your feelings, and knock it off.

exactly this.


They are not your real friends if they treat you like crap. You need to stand up for yourself and tell them you don't like it. If they continue to do it find yourself some real friends.

[johnsmith1]

exactly this.


They are not your real friends if they treat you like crap. You need to stand up for yourself and tell them you don't like it. If they continue to do it find yourself some real friends.

Agreed. If you calmly tell them, and they keep wind you up, just walk away. It's not worth the reaction.

[Jerwolf38]

Well ill try but my stutter will get in the way and then theyll joke around and wont let me talk

[Aca-awkward]

Tell them you like girls. Stop letting them out you down.

[Faolan]

This happens to me sometimes as well, but I'm not very public about my feelings, so not often. For me, it's more like my straight friend says he has a crush on one girl, and I say that I have a bit of a crush on her too. Then he says, "really? I thought you weren't into girls." It's happened multiple times, but he doesn't seem to care.

[jaxian rhyder]

They may only be teasing u

[GigglyAbby]

I agree that they may not be true friends if they don't respect what you say. Not in their defense -- it's possible they see boy and boy intimacy as being gay regardless even if you're attracted to girls

[James Bond]

Just explain it to them that you dont like it when they call you gay or anything. Tell them that just because you're bi doesn't mean you like girlish colours, or you're flamboyant, or anything like that.

[Soldier212]

Say that if they don't treat you with the simple request you have asked of them then you don't need them and will find friends who understand you