PENIS PRIVACY? Dorm & College Roommate

[mathew.mathew11]

I'm about to go to college and wanted to know how privacy is going to work.. meaning should I really care much about privacy with my roommate. Like should I try to hide my dick when changing or showering.. or how should I go about wherever I want to masturbate? Does anyone have any tips tips or advice or experience on dick privacy, etc with roommate. Thanks!:)

[Michael Anthony]

i go to a boarding high school.
dont be all shy and stuff about changing, you'll come across as a sissy. just change in your room like you were home. he's your roommate, nothing wrong with him seeing you naked.

as for masturbation, talk to him about it and work out something.

[pmpsj96]

Changing is no big deal. Masterbating I would find out his class schedule and just do it between then. Or just talk to him and just say for bring girls back and shit,

[Trenton_]

i go to a boarding high school.
dont be all shy and stuff about changing, you'll come across as a sissy. just change in your room like you were home. he's your roommate, nothing wrong with him seeing you naked.

as for masturbation, talk to him about it and work out something.

What's boarding school like? Do you think you like it more than you would staying at home and going to public school? Or a private, non boarding school?

What made you decide to go there? Just curious what it's like is all.

[Nomad_X]

You and your roommate should have a talk as soon as possible about this kinda issue. About how who gets the room and when and what for, who gets sexiled etc. Your RA should be mentioning to you during orientation to have this kind of talk.

[mathew.mathew11]

So also how would you go about bringing the masturbation subject up bc I don't want to sound creepy or any shit lol

[teen.jpg]

You shouldn't have to. You're both adults, be mature about it. But if youre really worried about it, tell youre roommate that.

[AusBoy19QLD]

Why not just keep it private? Do it in a toilet or something.

[llwoahll]

Well I think u should ezz ur way in 2 it and c if he is comfortable with it or not

[Jasperf]

I'm about to go to college and wanted to know how privacy is going to work.. meaning should I really care much about privacy with my roommate. Like should I try to hide my dick when changing or showering.. or how should I go about wherever I want to masturbate? Does anyone have any tips tips or advice or experience on dick privacy, etc with roommate. Thanks!:)

Hey man (: well I go to boarding school, so I too stay in dorms. Well we have our own room but we still have to shower together. In your situation, I would get to know your room mate, and slowly get more comfortable being naked. Though I would get comfortable wearing just my underwear around, this imidiatly gets you two comfortable in your skin. Eg, wear it to bed and get up and not worry about rushing to put pants on. In our dorm we live in our jocks(boxer briefs)

Pm me Id you'd like to chat on the subject further

[Prince of Rome]

Work out some type of schedule or whatever. You can even just set some ground rules such as when you need to jerk off, just tell him you need some alone time and he will leave, and when he needs alone time you will need.

[mathew.mathew11]

Hey man (: well I go to boarding school, so I too stay in dorms. Well we have our own room but we still have to shower together. In your situation, I would get to know your room mate, and slowly get more comfortable being naked. Though I would get comfortable wearing just my underwear around, this imidiatly gets you two comfortable in your skin. Eg, wear it to bed and get up and not worry about rushing to put pants on. In our dorm we live in our jocks(boxer briefs)

Pm me Id you'd like to chat on the subject further

Hey I can't pm u bc I haven't reached 100 posts

[Jasperf]

Hey I can't pm u bc I haven't reached 100 posts

But would you like to talk further?

[mathew.mathew11]

But would you like to talk further?

Yea I would

[Jasperf]

What's boarding school like? Do you think you like it more than you would staying at home and going to public school? Or a private, non boarding school?

What made you decide to go there? Just curious what it's like is all.
i thought id answer your questions cause i go to boarding school too (:

boarding school is, well how good could it be :P i would rather it over any other public school though! At my school its mandatory to stay at the school. I go to my school because its the sporting academy of new zealand. We are all split into houses, usually the sport that you specialize in, so that we don't go waking randoms up at 5:15 am for morning training. (: anything else?

[Ddare28]

There's nothing to worry about. You're both grown and in college. Plus you both are likely to notice each other sooner or later, it's normal. But if it really bothers you you can talk about it with him. Don't be shy about changing. Just change like you would normally in your own room at home. He's your roommate, nothing wrong with him seeing you naked or vise-versa.

[nfs4394]

I just finished my first year at college, so I have some experience with a roommate. Basically, you never really need to worry about being completely naked in front of him. Almost everybody puts on a pair of underwear when they get out of the shower and just walks back to their room. If you have a private bathroom, then it's a non-issue.

As for the whole masturbating situation, there's a couple of things you can do. I had a copy of my roommate's schedule, so I always knew when he was going to be out of the room for a while and I would have time. Another option is to just talk to him about it (he does it too, don't worry), and establish some ground rules. Your final option is to just do it in the shower, which I know plenty of guys in my dorm did. It kind of sucks, but at least you know you're not going to be interrupted

[Michael Anthony]

Why not just keep it private? Do it in a toilet or something.

i personally find jerking off in a toilet to be gross

[Blablabla36489]

Tell him,maybe you could mastrubate together.

[torcon4421]

i go to a boarding high school.
dont be all shy and stuff about changing, you'll come across as a sissy. just change in your room like you were home. he's your roommate, nothing wrong with him seeing you naked.

as for masturbation, talk to him about it and work out something.

yeah i totally agree

[AnsaarD]

I think you should just ask him. You're both adults and its natural so don't worry about it. He'll probably just be thankful you brought it up first

[JonasNegmis]

I had a roommate too and saw each other naked a few times, really, no big deal at all. But with that said, my roommate and I got along quite well and we were kind of like brothers really.

And as for masturbation, just do it when he's out for class or do it at night quietly. Believe me, he has to masturbate too! My roommate would sometimes jack off at night even though Im still awake, and I would just keep quiet and focus on something else until he's done.

[BenjiCleland]

Ask him if he cares to see you nude, it shouldnt matter at all

[jaycee.broham]

Hang around naked, but dont wank in front of him. there are limits, you know..

[ralphcarmineleo]

I just finished my first year at college, so I have some experience with a roommate. Basically, you never really need to worry about being completely naked in front of him. Almost everybody puts on a pair of underwear when they get out of the shower and just walks back to their room. If you have a private bathroom, then it's a non-issue.

As for the whole masturbating situation, there's a couple of things you can do. I had a copy of my roommate's schedule, so I always knew when he was going to be out of the room for a while and I would have time. Another option is to just talk to him about it (he does it too, don't worry), and establish some ground rules. Your final option is to just do it in the shower, which I know plenty of guys in my dorm did. It kind of sucks, but at least you know you're not going to be interrupted

totally agree

[chelsea99]

honestly it depends what your roomie is like

[Catholic Guy]

i go to a boarding high school.
dont be all shy and stuff about changing, you'll come across as a sissy. just change in your room like you were home. he's your roommate, nothing wrong with him seeing you naked.

as for masturbation, talk to him about it and work out something.

I completely agree with all of this, it makes perfect sense you should do exactly what he says, just get naked and get on with it, and defiantly talk to him about masturbation, he will have seen you naked so if you just talk to him about it, he might even do it with you

[Zach1702]

The changing u should feel fine with.
The wanking however you should go with what the mood night is

[Tyler44441]

I know my roommate and I didn't have a problem changing in front of each other as long as we weren't getting completely naked. As for masturbating, I never did it in the room with or without him in there. I would usually just do it in the shower.

[MinecraftPopcorn]

I'm about to go to college and wanted to know how privacy is going to work.. meaning should I really care much about privacy with my roommate. Like should I try to hide my dick when changing or showering.. or how should I go about wherever I want to masturbate? Does anyone have any tips tips or advice or experience on dick privacy, etc with roommate. Thanks!:)
It depends on the room mate you get...A geek or a person like you,,,

[Liam TWB]

I would just try to get relaxed being naked with him there because it will be far less trouble on a day to day basis. While you neednt march naked round the room on day one, just dont get all paranoid about covering up. As for having a wank, he'll be desperate to know he can get his share too. Either do as the guys say and match his schedule, do it in bed as quietly as possible or just agree to do it together with the lights out!

[wozemonkey]

it don't matter about changing or showering just speak to him about u masterbating

[Scottish-Boy]

yeah i totally agree
+1 totally agree

[ska8er]

if ur shy u might have some probs. i think college kids r more open bout stuff. u have to get used to it. no problems u dress and undress as u usually do. i shared tents with a few boy scouts. u get to know them better.

[steve21]

i went on a school trip to costa rica and it got a whole lot easier when my friends and i just got comfortable walking around naked in our rooms. it wasnt really a problem. see how your room mate feels about things though.

[Brazilianboy]

I just finished my first year at college, so I have some experience with a roommate. Basically, you never really need to worry about being completely naked in front of him. Almost everybody puts on a pair of underwear when they get out of the shower and just walks back to their room. If you have a private bathroom, then it's a non-issue.

As for the whole masturbating situation, there's a couple of things you can do. I had a copy of my roommate's schedule, so I always knew when he was going to be out of the room for a while and I would have time. Another option is to just talk to him about it (he does it too, don't worry), and establish some ground rules. Your final option is to just do it in the shower, which I know plenty of guys in my dorm did. It kind of sucks, but at least you know you're not going to be interrupted

Totally agreed

[goodboy321]

you shouldn't hide yourself in the shower. if you are sharing a room. see what your roomate does. if you are both comfortable being naked or half naked. then go for it