condomns

[imcoolbro]

My gf and i have been dating for 7 months and we think its time to have sexual intercourse but she doesnt want me to wear a condom and i think i should so we keep getting into the same argument. what should i do?

[caliguy]

you should wear it..either one could possibly have a disease that you dont know about. Even if you are a virgin. plus there is the whole pregnancy thing too. yes you could use a rhythm method but it is not reliable at all.

[Jason98]

My gf and i have been dating for 7 months and we think its time to have sexual intercourse but she doesnt want me to wear a condom and i think i should so we keep getting into the same argument. what should i do?

Is she on birth control?
Even if she is you should still wear one for extra protection.
If she loves you she will respect how you feel

[DerBear]

You should really ware one. Tell her of the problems and altercations that can come from not wearing one. I'm sure she'll come around.

[Nomad_X]

Wear one.

[PinkFloyd]

Tell her that you aren't ready to ruin your life by being a teenage dad. The withdrawl method doesn't work at all either. Pre cum still has sperm in it ALWAYS.

[Nomad_X]

Pre cum still has sperm n it sometimes.



Wrong! All times!

[imcoolbro]

i was thinking of just breaking up with her.

[Perfectly Flawed]

Wear it. It's not worth the risk. I've had a possible pregnancy scare and it's more stress than you could possibly imagine.

[PinkFloyd]

Wrong! All times!

Really? Didn't know that. Thanks.

[Steven1]

Unless you want a baby, I'd say you need at least one form of contraception. The male condom has a 99% success rate, so it's a pretty safe bet. I wouldn't go in naturally otherwise you're likely to end up with a child on the way and, even though condoms don't protect against all of these, just some, an STI if she has one. I'd just tell her that its a lot easier to put up with a condom for however long it will be rather than a child for the rest of your lives.

[phoenixboy]

My gf and i have been dating for 7 months and we think its time to have sexual intercourse but she doesnt want me to wear a condom and i think i should so we keep getting into the same argument. what should i do?

if she dose not have any STDs it might be better because if you whare a condom you will most likely have your orgasism inside of her and she has a large precentage of getting pregnate because condoms are not 100% effective and if you cum o lets say on her face she wont have any chance of getting pregnate.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, until you guys can come ( no pun intended ) to an agreement on this, it's best to just not have sex. It can wait a little longer, can't it?
Sex isn't really that important.

[HUSTLEMAN]

Then end it. Its one thing if the male doesn't want to wear a condom(Its the norm) but for a female to refuse wearing a condom after you have repeatedly recommended that you should wear it, its not worth it. There shouldn't even be an objection, much less an argument over it.

Thank You and You're Welcome

[GigglyAbby]

There's a chance that she can be allergic to latex and it's possible she may think those are the only kinds of condoms. I agree that even if she's using hormonal birth control and you don't trust it alone -- you can turn her down - break up with her - or use a condom. If used correctly and females are aware of the things that can make it ineffective -- hormonal birth control is more effective than a condom. anytime you have sex with or without a condom or other forms of birth control -- you are risking pregnancy.

[kryptonite]

Wrong! All times!

Really? Everything I've heard says you can get pregnant off pre-cum.

[RMP23]

You guys are only dating for 7 months and she wants you to bang her.... damn! Lol anyways, wear a condom dude. Safe sex man. I bet it would feel the sam without condom. Cheers! :)

[Nomad_X]

Really? Everything I've heard says you can get pregnant off pre-cum.

I was refering to there being sperm in all precum.

[Jakeyboy]

you could suggest she uses the pill, that way no pregnancy worries and she gets her way, it's what me and my gf do.

[Pitsirikos]

You can't play with such things. You should wear it for sure for many reasons I am sure you already know. Make your gf understand it as well.

[Luminous]

If she's not mature enough to be willing to use protection she's not mature to have sex or possibly have a baby.

[justinglives]

Even if she is on her own bc, u should use 1. They have so many now tht feel like nothing at all!
Bc is NOT entirely foolproof. An ex (not by me) got pregnant cuz she thot th pill was 100 percent. Its NOT! So unless u wanna change ure name to daddy......slick it up b4 u stick it in!

[beautiful__disaster]

Wear one, even if she is on birth control for extra protection and protection against STDs.

[niceguy44]

use a condom

[Eli001]

You should wear one. It is the best thing for both of you because either one of you could be carrying a disease that you don't know about. Also if you do wear one it helps prevent against pregnancy.

[ovoxo23]

My gf and i have been dating for 7 months and we think its time to have sexual intercourse but she doesnt want me to wear a condom and i think i should so we keep getting into the same argument. what should i do?

That's different. The girl is the one that doesn't want a condom. Did she say why?

[xxsgboixx]

Just wear it, (full-stop).

[HelpfulGuy]

Unless you want a baby or possibly a disease, I'd say you should wear a condom.

[Hawk1248]

Wear one even if she's on birth control

[imcoolbro]

Thank you for all of your responses