im not gay just curious

[myspace]

Well im not gay at least i dont thin so. but there is this one guy that i think is cute.

And he is a good friend of mine i have seen him in his underwear and his penis. one day ge saw me staring at it. He just smiled at me while i was staring at it. it made my just want to go up and kiss himand suck his penis and that.


i still want to how would i go by just asking him to do so.,

[Patchy]

well you can just go up to someone and ask that out of the blue coz if a guy did that to a girl he'd get a slap....First is he gay/bi/curious coz if hes straight I'd doubt hes's gonna let you

[ideasman]

i just suggest that you ask him.. i mean only if you think he'd want to. he may have been smiling for completely different reasons.. take some time to find out why he was smiling and if you honestly believe he'll want to experiment..
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[whitecar]

yeah... i wouldnt rush it... im the same way, im not gay just curious (at least i dont think so...lol) :D

[deann69]

jus tel him the truth and ask him if he is a gd friend

[byee]

These situations come up frequently, and I think there are 2 camps of advice. The first is the 'Go for it!' side, those who believe that having an urge/idea/impulse is enough of a reason to go out and do whatever 'it' is, and the second camp that encourages a little self restraint, control, and fore thought. I'm in that camp.

Just because you are 'curious' about something (anything, really) doesn't mean that you should automatically give yourself the green light to do it. Sometimes, it's better to stop and think about what happens afterwards.

That doesn't mean you don't do whatever the 'It' is, it just means the decision is based on a more careful analysis of the possible outcomes, and if those outcomes are worth the risk of going thru with 'it'.

Doing something sexual with a person of either gender is a pretty personal thing, and with those personal things comes the risk of complications. You'd do well to consider what the effect of those complications (including his rejecting your suggestion) might be before you come up with a strategy to approach him.

Sometimes, it's better to remain 'curious'.

[chris__robin]

Sometimes, it's better to remain 'curious'

i think that with someone being 'curious' comes the sexual experimentation, i mean what good is being curious if you never act on it and figure out what your sexual orientation is.

[gingeylover14]

i no what u mean i hav this friend and me and her experement together but im not sure id give up my bf for a girl