Confused

[james100]

I'm 15. I've liked this girl for years and we're really good friends. We've talked about dating but it never happened. At a party, me and her were flirting ect... when we started getting off. She threw herself on me and seemed very keen. Then she stopped and said; "This is weird, I like (my best friend)". This was my first kiss and have very strong feelings about it. After that we just cuddled and talked for about 4 hours. I really really like her so what do I do? I want to have a relationship with her and desperately don't want her to date my friend. I know it sounds selfish, but it would just tear me up. What shall I do?

[GigglyAbby]

If you pursue her -- you likely will lose both of them as friends. Therefore -- I would give them an opportunity to try dating before you think of asking her out again. Losing both of them will tear you up more...

[dontfiguremeout]

Well from what I read you both like each other! Now you can go ask her on a date! She will say yes! And then do it a couple more times then ask her to be your girlfriend. Make sure you don't rush it though!