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Austins
June 24th, 2013, 01:49 AM
My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 6 months now and we recently got into a big fight today, a fight that I started and she tried to avoid. While I was sitting in my room I realized... I always do this, whenever I get into a loving relationship I either run or get bored out of nowhere and ruin it. I really love my girlfriend but I fear that I will destroy our relationship because i'm so hopeless. Whenever we start to somewhat get in a fight I change the subject and when she tries to understand me better I also try to change the subject or get her distracted. And when she does put her foot down I leave the room, Although she stays with me tonight I hurt her and she went to sleep early tonight So i'm asking everyone here... How can I stop myself from harming my relationship?

GigglyAbby
June 25th, 2013, 12:47 AM
Learn better coping -- stress and anger management skills and perhaps seek some guidance from a counselor who may be able to help you.