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Nottoocool
June 23rd, 2013, 10:46 PM
Hi I just joined the other day an posted about wanting to come out and I put myself in a position texting two of my friends (girls) and I can come out. I've had them guessing who I like yesterday and told them I'm having an emotional breakdown. Please give me advise!! And fast!!

I forgot to say they are yelling (caps lock) at me and I just can't get words out

Double Post Merged~Please don't double post~Derri
DerBear
June 23rd, 2013, 11:02 PM
Hi I just joined the other day an posted about wanting to come out and I put myself in a position texting two of my friends (girls) and I can come out. I've had them guessing who I like yesterday and told them I'm having an emotional breakdown. Please give me advise!! And fast!!

I forgot to say they are yelling (caps lock) at me and I just can't get words out

Double Post Merged~Please don't double post~Derri

So you've came out to these two girls, correct?

So what are you exactly having the emotional breakdown over? Is it because you've came out and are worried or is because your friends are guessing who you have a crush on or is that you are having one over coming out in general?

The only reason I ask is because I'm not exactly sure what you're having an emotional breakdown over.
Nottoocool
June 23rd, 2013, 11:07 PM
I haven't come out yet and they're mad at me for calling them mean because earlier they called me gay (still not out remember, so I got defensive) and now I feel almost ready to come out and I just don't know how to say "I'm gay" and I'm staring to breakdown and I'm tired and not thinking 100% normal. Thanks for the help!
DepartInSecret
June 24th, 2013, 03:36 AM
Well firstly I think it is important to do it in person, but if you are not comfortable doing that then don't. There are not really any right words other than I am gay to tell them. Also there is no normal.
The first people are the hardest good luck.
Pano
June 24th, 2013, 04:14 AM
If you're comfortable by coming out, nothing's stopping you. :)
Magnus Bane
June 25th, 2013, 02:36 PM
well you could tell them that you are a circle instead of a str8 line that's what I did at first