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Lmc12
June 23rd, 2013, 12:38 PM
My bestfriend recently came out gay and a few years before I had come out as bisexual, however he recently got a boyfriend and he's gotten really big headed. He even told our other friends that "I liked him" and that I was "jealous of him and his boyfriend" I'm not supposed to know he's said these things so how should I go about telling him I'm definitely 100000% not jealous?
jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 12:49 PM
He likes u actually if he is sayim that he is doin wat we call teasing he actually wants u to like him
Lmc12
June 23rd, 2013, 12:56 PM
He likes u actually if he is sayim that he is doin wat we call teasing he actually wants u to like him

It's put a really big downer on our friendship and you're right he wants me to like him, but he doesn't want me to like him so we can be together he just wants me to like him to feed his ego :what:
jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 12:59 PM
Then just ignore him he's a show off
DerBear
June 23rd, 2013, 10:47 PM
Well I mean you could just tell him you know what's being said and try to openly discuss the matter. On the other hand you could just drop him as a friend but that would be sad because obviously you've been friends for along time.

Like I said, I'd advise talking to him and discussing the matter more openly.
Lmc12
June 24th, 2013, 06:21 PM
I don't want to make things awkward tho? As the next time we see each other will be a birthday party which is supposed to be fun and light hearted not to mention that alcohol will be involved and that always makes situations worse...:/
dontfiguremeout
June 24th, 2013, 09:25 PM
Aren't you two bestfriends?! Bestfriends mean that they tell each other everything they are feeling. So maybe you should tell him you herd it and you want to know it's true. Be open and honest with each other.
photojared
July 3rd, 2013, 09:23 AM
just act the same and say it in a casual way to him
RyanCrest
July 8th, 2013, 01:05 PM
If he's your friend he wouldn't be talking about you like that. Forget him, and worry about your real friends
BenjiCleland
July 10th, 2013, 04:02 PM
He probably likes you
Abyssal Echo
July 10th, 2013, 04:40 PM
If he's your friend he wouldn't be talking about you like that. Forget him, and worry about your real friends

I have to agree with Ryan if he was really your best friend he wouldn't be talking about you like that. so forget about him and move on.