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cosmicpanda
June 23rd, 2013, 08:54 AM
i am attracted to one of my friends and it feels a little weird to talk to him sometimes and also no matter what he is wearing he has a huge bulge that turns me on and i don't know what to say.

should i say any thing or do anything

joshM1996
June 23rd, 2013, 09:02 AM
i have the same problem, honestly dont try anything if it might ruin the friendship its not worth it. and just try to act normal when you talk to him, youll get used to it eventually

imcoolbro
June 23rd, 2013, 09:14 AM
i dont have that same problem but something close to it.

pmpsj96
June 23rd, 2013, 09:26 AM
I have the same problem!

NeuroTiger
June 23rd, 2013, 09:31 AM
Well,there was a friend attracted to me recently(about two weeks back),
The day he revealed to me, I was like 'omg!'
But gradually I accepted him back but he knows I don't want to be gay.
If you want to tell him,don't make it as a major topic unless you are very close to him

LiamC
June 23rd, 2013, 09:41 AM
Only tell him if you know he's happy with you being bi and he won't freak out or anything. I told one of my best friends I have a crush on him because I knew he was 100% supportive that I'm gay and is always there for me, he understood even if he isn't gay himself and it hasn't changed anything.

jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 09:59 AM
Well I say float around the subject with him and see were it goes

cosmicpanda
June 23rd, 2013, 10:26 AM
thanks for the replys

jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 12:53 PM
Ur very welcome

jordan_
June 23rd, 2013, 02:07 PM
kind of the same problem, but I'm not attracted to him, I just want to experiment with him/compare with him. but that would make it really awkward

jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 02:18 PM
Not if u do it subtle
float around the subject
watch porn
Ask him

Fanta_Lover44
June 23rd, 2013, 02:21 PM
Erm, if I where you there's 2 options, telling him and ignoreing it. It may be better to tell him although it could ruin the friend ship. I would let him know somehow wheather it is brief or blunt, let him know or just hint it lightly.

tommy100
June 25th, 2013, 11:16 PM
I am the same with one of my friends

spikey3088
June 26th, 2013, 12:22 AM
i feel just like you