Should Girls Make The First Move? (Girls)

[STEALTHy]

Should girls make the first move for a relationship? I feel like it is almost a law that a guy has to make the first move and ask out a girl. I don't really like that though.

Girls

Have you ever made the first move and asked out a guy?
If you haven't, would you ever make the first move?
If you would, why?

[Lost in the Echo]

P101 :arrow: Relationships & Dating.
This fits better there. :)

[Starscream]

Traditionally, guys have always made the moves. But it has become more and more normal for girls to make the move. Which is both great, yet not so great. Because some guys may feel intimidated or even unmanly.

[Piachu]

I see nothing wrong with girls making the first move. I asked my ex out, and it worked. :)

[oohlala]

There's nothing wrong at all about the girl making the first move. It's just that were so used to the boys making the first move that we usually don't do it. Some girls do that but they're a lot braver either because they know that they're so loud,pretty and popular that they wouldn't get rejected or because they r just naturally brave and bold (which I respect). The rest of us, including me, are just too shy to do that either because we're unseen and invisible so if the guy rejects us, people will talk and you'll be scrutinized or we're just kind loserish and the guy is pretty popular and all but the guy might not be decent enough to not tell anybody due to the fact that he's kind of popular and all. There are still many kinds of reasons that I haven't mentioned but there out there. I think it all depends on the girl, the boy, the situation and her opinion of whether she should make the first move or not. Phew, long post :)

[jaxian rhyder]

Guys normally do but in all my dating senarious the girl did
also think of it this way not all guys r as boyish as u might think
I actially have serious trouble with asking girls out
Honestly he might not even know u like him
Lastly I think if u like someone u should ask them boy or girl

[Zeke]

I'm a guy and personally we absolutely love it when the girls make the first move!!! Especially when your like me, and shy and nervous about making the first move. When the ladies do it makes us feel so much better and relived.

Take care :)

[Perfectly Flawed]

I'm a guy and personally we absolutely love it when the girls make the first move!!! Especially when your like me, and shy and nervous about making the first move. When the ladies do it makes us feel so much better and relived.

Take care :)

^All of this.^

[Vocabulous]

as a guy, just ask us out already. theres no way we'll figure it out on our own.

[tubanic]

I made the first move and there is no reason why girls shouldn't

[Jess]

If a girl wants to, yeah, why not. I personally wouldn't...I'm too shy and nervous to make the first one. I'd rather the guy make the first move.

[clueless_one]

If a girl wants to, yeah, why not. I personally wouldn't...I'm too shy and nervous to make the first one. I'd rather the guy make the first move.

I'm a guy and I agree with this. To me girls are really sensitive to things so if a girl asked out a guy and got rejected they will be really upset (maybe cry). So it is why I feel guys only make the first move. But if girls want to ask a guy out, well they can go ahead.

[GigglyAbby]

I know that when my parents grew up -- it was more common for the guy to ask a girl out. However -- I don't think it should matter who initiates the first move -- yet I think girls should take the initiative more because it can help guys self esteems if they got asked out. But -- I'm concerned that if more girls ask guys out -- they may have more self esteem problems.

[Abgail 16]

I think it's more likely to happen if the girl already knows the boy ,that does make it a bit easier.

[jaxian rhyder]

as a guy, just ask us out already. theres no way we'll figure it out on our own.

So true

[jaxian rhyder]

I know that when my parents grew up -- it was more common for the guy to ask a girl out. However -- I don't think it should matter who initiates the first move -- yet I think girls should take the initiative more because it can help guys self esteems if they got asked out. But -- I'm concerned that if more girls ask guys out -- they may have more self esteem problems.

Also true

[lipstick_kisses23]

I always make the first move =]
First move maker!
I make the first move because I'd like them to know I'm interested rather than wondering for 3 days before they finally ask if I am

[CharlieHorse]

When girls make the first move, it makes the guy go wonders.

[Melodic]

I asked out a guy before in a relationship, and even though I dislike the guy for many reasons, it still was a good relationship.

[AriannaKitten]

It shouldn't be that way but for myself, I would never do that. I'm more traditional and shy.