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Vocabulous
June 23rd, 2013, 03:10 AM
ok, here's the deal. i have a wonderful girlfriend who i adore in everyway. we met at a church (her father was the new youth pastor there) and we were good friends for a long time. eventualy she asked me out. that was 2 years ago, and i still haven't even kissed her. we live a pretty decent distance apart and aren't able to see each other often. i am really awkward and so terrified of moving to fast and ruining the relationship that i have literally done nothing. she hasn't made any moves either, so i dont know what to do.

Conqueror of Hearts
June 23rd, 2013, 04:04 AM
Well I guess you should make a move...you're not going too fast -after 2 years of dating I think it's time for you to move to the next level, so I think you should kiss her.:)

Starscream
June 23rd, 2013, 04:19 AM
She's most likely waiting for you to make the first move, because that's what traditionally happens in a relationship. My best advice is honestly, just suck it up and make the move. You're not moving too fast, too fast would be kissing her on your 2-3rd date.

Grand Admiral Thrawn
June 23rd, 2013, 05:14 AM
Well, she did make the first move - she asked you out. Now she's waiting for you to show interest. I wouldn't say it's too fast, since you went out two years ago. Now it's your turn. Ask her out, show her a good time, and then kiss her. Don't make such a big deal about it, just do it. No reason to be awkward.

jaxian rhyder
June 23rd, 2013, 12:13 PM
She's probly waiting for u to do something first
also I sometimes have the same problem just when u feel awkward around her get her to look at u and go to kiss her most people go for the lips but my first kiss with any girl is on the cheek
also if she seems depressed that's when u kiss her and say its alright

Piachu
June 23rd, 2013, 12:37 PM
Honestly if you first went out with her two years ago, I wouldn't say a kiss would be "moving too fast". When you feel like the timing is right, give her a kiss and see how she reacts to it. Go for it :)