Summer Camp

[tarheelboy8888]

Next week I go to camp, and I'm pretty sure I'll be rooming with one of my best friends. In past years, I've roomed with him, and we've always gone out of the way to make the other person get out of the room when we're completely changing (like underwear and everything). I was wondering if it would be weird to just change into underwear and stuff just randomly while he's in the room or should I ask? (The latter seems like an awkward conversation.)

I'd appreciate advice on the subject, and if any of you have had similar experiences and if so, how you handled them

[pvanhouten]

Either ask or see what he does and copy that... If he changes than it should be ok with him if you change.

[jaxian rhyder]

I thnk u should bring the subject up to him

[tarheelboy8888]

I thnk u should bring the subject up to him

But won't that be a REALLY awkward conversation?

[AusBoy19QLD]

Depends on how well you know him, personally I could do it to some friends where as others would probably be like "WTF".

[Jasperf]

But won't that be a REALLY awkward conversation?

i think that if you dont make a big deal about it it would be fine just to get changed in the same room (: just do it kinda subtle and he wont care im sure, then you will get more comfortable.
what do you sleep in?

[tarheelboy8888]

i think that if you dont make a big deal about it it would be fine just to get changed in the same room (: just do it kinda subtle and he wont care im sure, then you will get more comfortable.
what do you sleep in?

I usually sleep in basketball shorts and no underwear during the summer. I may just change discreetly as others have said, not drawing attention to it, and see what comes of it.

[Jasperf]

I usually sleep in basketball shorts and no underwear during the summer. I may just change discreetly as others have said, not drawing attention to it, and see what comes of it.

if you slept in your underwear instead, this would give you a reason to just be in underwear, once you get comfortable wearing them in front of each other ( which would only take a few days) you could be ready to subtly change in front of each other (:

[tarheelboy8888]

if you slept in your underwear instead, this would give you a reason to just be in underwear, once you get comfortable wearing them in front of each other ( which would only take a few days) you could be ready to subtly change in front of each other (:

Sounds good. Have you ever had an experience like this?

[Jasperf]

Sounds good. Have you ever had an experience like this?

i go to boarding school :p we are totally comfortable being naked around each other as we all shower together... (: but im sure this plan will work :D as long as he feels relaxed and can see you are also :)

[PinkFloyd]

I would ask hi before you just start changing If he's anything like me, he will freak out in disgust.

[AusBoy19QLD]

Sounds good. Have you ever had an experience like this?

I have, it was really hot one night and I just stripped to my underwear and slept, my friend looked at me and I just said "Yeah, it's hot" and he didn't care. I was 16 at the time. Just don't make a big deal of it and act as if it's a casual thing to do.

[tarheelboy8888]

Just to let y'all know, I am not asking this in a sexual way. As I stated in the first post, in previous years, we have gone well out of our way just to change ie: walking all the way to the bathroom down the hall, or making the other person stand in the hallway while I or he changes. I don't think this is necessary, and am just testing the water on what it would be like if I discreetly changed.

[Jasperf]

I would ask hi before you just start changing If he's anything like me, he will freak out in disgust.

why would you freak out in disgust, by seeing another human beings body?!

[pmpsj96]

Just change maybe say dont look I'm getting changer, if he says something be like man I'm just changing. You both should be mature enough to get changer

[Jasperf]

Just to let y'all know, I am not asking this in a sexual way. As I stated in the first post, in previous years, we have gone well out of our way just to change ie: walking all the way to the bathroom down the hall, or making the other person stand in the hallway while I or he changes. I don't think this is necessary, and am just testing the water on what it would be like if I discreetly changed.

i dont think that its wrong for you guys to get changed in front of each other, waiting outside while each other change is such a childish way of doing things :p well not childish actually cause they don't care about there body :o

[Jevon]

Now that I think about it the past two years I have been to camp me and my room mates never changed in front of each other but then again we didn't know each other very well either so yah

[tarheelboy8888]

Thanks guys! I now have the confidence to just say that I am getting changed and he can look if he wants, and hopefully he will do the same. I think it will strengthen our relationship as friends.

[Jasperf]

Thanks guys! I now have the confidence to just say that I am getting changed and he can look if he wants, and hopefully he will do the same. I think it will strengthen our relationship as friends.

this is great news :D

[confusedteen33]

Just change and don't make a big deal about it

[Sean4U]

You're going to be at camp, rooming with him and it is your room and his as well....it's not like you're at home as you will be sleeping, changing and all anyway at camp...I've never gone to camp when I just was with one person, and there were a group of us and just let it go naturally....if he objects then he'll leave, so otherwise just let it be normal as if you were with your brother (I have 3 so I guess that's where it comes from)

[jaxian rhyder]

i think that if you dont make a big deal about it it would be fine just to get changed in the same room (: just do it kinda subtle and he wont care im sure, then you will get more comfortable.
what do you sleep in?

Exactly

[PinkFloyd]

why would you freak out in disgust, by seeing another human beings body?!

It's just how some people are... I don't WANT to be like this, but it's just how I am. Society has made me like this

[Samual]

ask first. imagine how he would react if he just woke up and saw you butt naked in front of him.

[gladiator528]

Just go for it and he'll follow your lead. No conversation necessary.

[johnsmith1]

Thanks guys! I now have the confidence to just say that I am getting changed and he can look if he wants, and hopefully he will do the same. I think it will strengthen our relationship as friends.

That's it, you'll be fine. There are a whole spectrum of people who are quiet who will get it over and done with quickly to those who are a lot more open. You'll find if he's quiet about it you'll be changed fairly quickly.

[Scottydog]

Speak to him before the camp! That way he won't be rushed to a decision!

[Catholic Guy]

No I don't think it's unacceptable if you are comfortable with them go for it, I know I would

[DerBear]

I'd ask him otherwise it might be a little awkward for him.

[tarheelboy8888]

Thanks again for all of the replies!

[Stig]

Let us know what happens.

[tarheelboy8888]

Yeah.....I definitely will. It'll be after next week, but I'll certainly let you know

[blaze16]

It's better if you ask, to avoid akward situations

[Justdance613]

Just change where and when you want

[alexkun]

talk to him about it.. that should do it..

[Jasperf]

talk to him about it.. that should do it..

It's better if you ask, to avoid akward situations

I'd ask him otherwise it might be a little awkward for him.

ask first. imagine how he would react if he just woke up and saw you butt naked in front of him.

Asking him would decently be awkward, if he just does it the guy can choose to look or leave or what ever he wants

[tarheelboy8888]

So it turns out, that I'm not rooming with the person that I thought I'd room with. I actually roomed with my brother who's at this particular camp for the very first time. We're pretty comfortable around each other, so changing wasn't a problem.

I couldn't help but notice, however, that he's got a couple pubes starting to grow in. So that means cumming won't be far behind for him!

[Michael Anthony]

no offense but making your rooommate stand out in the hallway just so you can pull down your underpants is pretty silly.

just change and get it over with. i cant believe some of you guys are so shy.

[justinglives]

no offense but making your rooommate stand out in the hallway just so you can pull down your underpants is pretty silly.

just change and get it over with. i cant believe some of you guys are so shy.

Im with this guy!
Wtf dude! Ure gunna have to get naked with other guys eventually.....school, camp, locker rooms, gyms, etc.

[torcon4421]

id say dont ask him and do it, and if he has a problem he'll speak up then

[spartanrob]

Sounds like you have the problem solved, but I would just change, its just like being in a locker room.

[Luke91]

If it ever does come up as you thought, just change. It is very normal and natural.

[itsLOGAN]

just go for it lol see what happens

[Heyhey2]

I've been going to summer camp for many years now. My cabin is all boys and we are always naked infront of each other. We even shower together to save money. Don't even worry man it will all be fine.

[eggs2006]

So it turns out, that I'm not rooming with the person that I thought I'd room with. I actually roomed with my brother who's at this particular camp for the very first time. We're pretty comfortable around each other, so changing wasn't a problem.

I couldn't help but notice, however, that he's got a couple pubes starting to grow in. So that means cumming won't be far behind for him!

Didn't you shower or change for swimming with other guys in the camp?

[tarheelboy8888]

No, there were 3 separate shower stalls in the bathroom, and we each took turns taking showers. We didn't swim while at camp, either.

[Teenguy10278]

I don't think there's anything wrong with changing in front of another guy. When I go to camp we change in front of each other. If you just don't look down, it's not a problem. You're both guys and you both have the same parts so why not?

[Morgoth42]

Eventually you'll have to change with random strangers in locker rooms. You can play off that angle, but you should ask, he is your friend and you don't want to neglect his feelings.

[wish_master_TWA]

Just let him know that you're changing so that he doesn't turn around and see you full blown nude :)

[ralphcarmineleo]

just go for it. if you guys r real friends it wont matter

[VirtualGuy012]

Either ask or see what he does and copy that... If he changes than it should be ok with him if you change.

agreed

[tarheelboy8888]

Thanks for the responses guys.

[Gmw12]

So it turns out, that I'm not rooming with the person that I thought I'd room with. I actually roomed with my brother who's at this particular camp for the very first time. We're pretty comfortable around each other, so changing wasn't a problem.

I couldn't help but notice, however, that he's got a couple pubes starting to grow in. So that means cumming won't be far behind for him!

That's cool you guys are close. I'm not close like that with my bro

[Fdmember]

Next week I go to camp, and I'm pretty sure I'll be rooming with one of my best friends. In past years, I've roomed with him, and we've always gone out of the way to make the other person get out of the room when we're completely changing (like underwear and everything). I was wondering if it would be weird to just change into underwear and stuff just randomly while he's in the room or should I ask? (The latter seems like an awkward conversation.)

I'd appreciate advice on the subject, and if any of you have had similar experiences and if so, how you handled them

LAst year I just said to my Friend im comfortable get in my underwear. If you aren't then fine we wont change. That's how I would handle it. Let me know how it went!

[Homba7]

just go for it. its just getting into underwear, there is nothing weird about it

[tarheelboy8888]

LAst year I just said to my Friend im comfortable get in my underwear. If you aren't then fine we wont change. That's how I would handle it. Let me know how it went!

You must have not read my earlier post. We didn't room together this year.

[chelsea99]

Next week I go to camp, and I'm pretty sure I'll be rooming with one of my best friends. In past years, I've roomed with him, and we've always gone out of the way to make the other person get out of the room when we're completely changing (like underwear and everything). I was wondering if it would be weird to just change into underwear and stuff just randomly while he's in the room or should I ask? (The latter seems like an awkward conversation.)

I'd appreciate advice on the subject, and if any of you have had similar experiences and if so, how you handled them

i think it would make it akward unless he was thinking simularly

[centropede]

Just ask him

[JamieDelRey]

Well like change under covers

[Werwer12]

Here's what you do. Stand up, take off your clothes. If he says anything just say it doesn't matter we have the same parts and laugh about it. Put on ur clothes and move along

[ATQteen]

I thnk u should bring the subject up to him

I agree

[Lost in the Echo]

Here's what you do. Stand up, take off your clothes. If he says anything just say it doesn't matter we have the same parts and laugh about it. Put on ur clothes and move along

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