Ninako
June 21st, 2013, 01:42 AM
Alright, so basically my parents had a divorce and the next year after my dad has a girlfriend whom I feel like he sneaks around with sort of. He introduced us to her and what not and told us she was his friend and just today I heard the word boyfriend come out of her mouth. I wanted to say "bitch what did you say?" and honestly I like her, but I will never ever consider her as a mom because for one thing her own kids are brats and she doesn't treat them right and spoils them.
Another thing is she's a Korean as well and she hates me. My dad doesn't understand this and I just want to tell him that I won't allow him having a girlfriend and that he should pay attention to taking care of my brothers and I and making money enough for us.
I babysit, mow lawns, walk dogs, do art commissions, and what not to help pay bills and for outings whenever I have to, but my dad needs to seriously stop worrying about dying lonely (without a wife) and stop thinking that we'll be back to a normal family if a mother figure is around. On top of that my dad smokes and well he uses his money to buy it and I know for a fact that he spends hundreds of dollars a month for packs of them.
I'm depressed and I am sad that my mother moved back to Korea, but I feel like my dad is losing it. He's a really good dad though and cares about us and our education, but I think he's going through depression as well as work stress. I'm scared and well...I need advice about what to do?
Another thing is she's a Korean as well and she hates me. My dad doesn't understand this and I just want to tell him that I won't allow him having a girlfriend and that he should pay attention to taking care of my brothers and I and making money enough for us.
I babysit, mow lawns, walk dogs, do art commissions, and what not to help pay bills and for outings whenever I have to, but my dad needs to seriously stop worrying about dying lonely (without a wife) and stop thinking that we'll be back to a normal family if a mother figure is around. On top of that my dad smokes and well he uses his money to buy it and I know for a fact that he spends hundreds of dollars a month for packs of them.
I'm depressed and I am sad that my mother moved back to Korea, but I feel like my dad is losing it. He's a really good dad though and cares about us and our education, but I think he's going through depression as well as work stress. I'm scared and well...I need advice about what to do?