Break up gone badly. Help?

[AvMan]

Hi there,

So a couple of weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Things weren't really going well and we couldn't really see each other enough so we broke up. Then we pretty much stopped talking but last week she sent me a message to say she had found another boyfriend and that they were going out. At the time I didn't really mind but more recently it has really been getting to me. I'm really starting to miss her and have ended up in tears a few times, especially when I think of all the great times we had together. So, my question is what do I do? I still love her but shes with someone else so we cant get back together. I really need some help to try to get over this.

Thanks for reading,
Matt

[Melodic]

If she is with another guy, don't wait. Just move on. You don't know how long their relationship could be and you don't want to interfere because it will cause too much drama. There are plenty of other relationships you can pursue.

[DerBear]

Sometimes we don't miss something until we no longer have it and we generally learn this lesson the hard way but to me it shows you either made a mistake or you're just missing her because you no longer have her.

As for what you can do you have two options which Madie pointed out. You can wait and hope she breaks up with the guy and then try and get her back, but that could never happen or be a long time or you could chalk this up as an experience and move on.

I'd too recommend moving on because its likely you'll face the same issues as you did before and wined up doing the same thing again.

[agirl555]

Move on. If shes yours, she'll come back or fate will bring you together. Go with the flow. Theres even a possibility shes using that guy to get you jealous if she for some reason feels like she has thr need to tell you.

[PinkFloyd]

The best advise I can give you is to move on. After a while it won't bother you as much as it does now.

[jaxian rhyder]

Move on

[lipstick_kisses23]

It sounds to me like she wasted no time moving on... I can relate. At first I felt so sad and my heart hurt so much I felt like I just wanted to die, but then I started hanging out with my friends a lot more and did the things I enjoyed again. It will take some time to "move on" or "Get over it" but when it happens you'll feel much better. Good luck friend, try and do things that make you smile :)

[Cooper197]

Honestly moving on is going to be best. I was in the same place as you a little over a year ago, and she moved on to another guy and I found a new girl. To avoid a whole story, those relationships lasted a couple months, now we're back together and have been for almost a year again. You never know what's going to happen, just take things a step at a time, maybe tell her how you still feel, if you think it's going to make you feel better, then move on. If it's meant to be you'll both come around eventually.

[princess09]

Hi there,

So a couple of weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend. Things weren't really going well and we couldn't really see each other enough so we broke up. Then we pretty much stopped talking but last week she sent me a message to say she had found another boyfriend and that they were going out. At the time I didn't really mind but more recently it has really been getting to me. I'm really starting to miss her and have ended up in tears a few times, especially when I think of all the great times we had together. So, my question is what do I do? I still love her but shes with someone else so we cant get back together. I really need some help to try to get over this.

Thanks for reading,
Matt
This might be a bit harsh I know what its like to be in love at our age, but the best thing is to move on , she's done it now show her that you can find someone else to it won't be hard for you to find a girlfriend I'm sure your a great guy any girl would be lucky to be with you 'xox

[Cece14]

Your jealous, Ive seen it a million times, and it also seems that she is trying to make you jealous and feel bad about breaking up........