awkward boner

[drew46]

help me

i see my self as str8 but i have experimented sexually with friends.

Today at school one of my friends who's a girl told me she had to show me something. she explained to me that her boyfriend (he is one of my best friends but one of the friend who i haven't experimented with.) had text her a naked picture. she wanted to no my opinion on whether i she should send him a naked pic back, i told her it was up to her but personally i wouldn't.

then it happened once i told her my opinion she showed me the picture. when i looked at the picture i was shocked he has a six pack but ive seen it before what shocked me was the size of his erect dick as it was at least 7in and thats big in my head cause im only 6in and he boys ive experimented with have all been the same size as me.
when i got home the only thing i could think about was the picture and as a result i got a boner.

my question is would you consider me gay cause i got a boner thinking about him. if i got the chance i would suck him off but i wouldn't want a gay relationship with him

[dreamur]

you're probably bi. if you are dont hide it, love it I guess haha

[Ethan15]

You might be bisexual, but I don't think it would make you gay.

[Altiier]

Some people have a reaction just by seeing a person naked, regardless of their gender. If you have experimented with a guy before and still consider yourself heterosexual I think its safe to say you are. Hope this helps :D

[indoxyl]

this might fit better in the sexuality forum

[HockeyLovesMe]

i think either bi or bi curious and theres like nothing wrong wth that :)

[caliguy]

dude here is the deal..if you are totally attracted to girls then you are not gay. you could be bi or bicurious. Either way its no big deal at all. its no big deal if you are gay either. (sorry if it started coming across that gay was bad ITS NOT). What ever the situation is go with it and be proud. Honestly though just cuz you got hard thinking about that means absolutely nothing as far as your sexual preference goes. I know guys that are total homophobes (witch is dumb but to each their own) that would have gotten aroused thinking about that. Its sexual and chances are you will get aroused at sexual thoughts. One though leads to another so fast in your head you may not be able to determine exactly what thought it was that you got hard for. maybe a though of him with that girl got you hard or a though of you sending her a pic. It doesn't matter. Just don't be afraid to face your sexual thoughts in any way.

[dufus]

I think it all sounds totally normal...No worries! Go play a bit and have some fun.

[Blablabla36489]

Maybe you were just excited about it but if you're bi,believe me,it's perfect!

[photojared]

no not until you have a mental connection with a guy

[joshM1996]

help me

i see my self as str8 but i have experimented sexually with friends.

Today at school one of my friends who's a girl told me she had to show me something. she explained to me that her boyfriend (he is one of my best friends but one of the friend who i haven't experimented with.) had text her a naked picture. she wanted to no my opinion on whether i she should send him a naked pic back, i told her it was up to her but personally i wouldn't.

then it happened once i told her my opinion she showed me the picture. when i looked at the picture i was shocked he has a six pack but ive seen it before what shocked me was the size of his erect dick as it was at least 7in and thats big in my head cause im only 6in and he boys ive experimented with have all been the same size as me.
when i got home the only thing i could think about was the picture and as a result i got a boner.

my question is would you consider me gay cause i got a boner thinking about him. if i got the chance i would suck him off but i wouldn't want a gay relationship with him

you pretty much answered your own question, gay is an emotional thing, meaning you can fall in love with the same sex and have an emotional attachment to them. sex is just sex, it doesnt make you gay if you dont love the guy, youre probably straight. if by chance you do turn out bi though just accept it, its totally fine either way

[newguy98]

your bi bro

[TinyDancer]

i think either bi or bi curious and theres like nothing wrong wth that :)

^ that and hormones. No worries :)

[BrandonA]

You're not bi unless you have sexual feelings for boys and girls. You could be str8/curious or it's the hormones. Puberty is weird. You get turned on from a lot of different things you're not used to. no worries

[AvMan]

Being attracted like that just for the odd time does definitely not make you gay, just curious like before as you said :)

[James Bond]

No.


Many guys, whether they admit it or not. Would get hard over thinking about a guy. It's completely normal, and it doesn't make you bi or gay.


But I can assure you you're not 100% straight, because no 100% straight guy would get hard over another guy. But there aren't many 100% straight guys. Most guys have a small curiosity, like you.

[Panda27]

You're not gay. You're a horny teenage boy

[SarahK]

I think sexuality is MORE than jsut getting turned on. If you got hard cuz of that you're normal. Just go with it and don't worry. You're not gay cuz you got a hard on :)