how to get out of the friend zone with an online pen pal ?

[hisoka44]

i have a korean penpal that i talked to ! And we really enjoy the conversation and really fell in love with her ! I drew her a picture and she really love it , anyway , how can i get out from the friends zone and make her love me ? We are really good friends now and i gained her trust ! What's next ?

[indoxyl]

i dont really think you can make someone love you. tell you like her and you want to go out with her or something

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Well is there any possibility for you to ever meet up, cause you said she's your penpal? I had I penpal and we crossed the 'friend line' but actually it was quite silly because we could never see each other in person and it was a bit hard for me to end that up, but I did because it wasn't working out. We weren't bf and gf cause that is impossible considering he lives in different country, but we liked each other very much. My advice is to stay friends because it's not going to work out in any other way.

[indoxyl]

Well is there any possibility for you to ever meet up, cause you said she's your penpal? I had I penpal and we crossed the 'friend line' but actually it was quite silly because we could never see each other in person and it was a bit hard for me to end that up, but I did because it wasn't working out. We weren't bf and gf cause that is impossible considering he lives in different country, but we liked each other very much. My advice is to stay friends because it's not going to work out in any other way.

Well now thats ridiculous. I dated a guy online for a year. Sometimes these things can work out. Dont discourage their chances :c just brcause it didnt work that one time for you, doesnt mean it wont work for this person.

[Synyster Shadows]

you can't make someone fall in love with you. Just be yourself, flirt a bit, and see what happens.

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Well now thats ridiculous. I dated a guy online for a year. Sometimes these things can work out. Dont discourage their chances :c just brcause it didnt work that one time for you, doesnt mean it wont work for this person.

Well we all have different opinions....I wouldn't call a relationship something that's only online based, I find relationships more serious I guess. But we are all different and have different views, I really didn't want to discourage him.

[Altiier]

I've never really had any online "relationships" but I can tell you that only time will tell (cheesy I know) but seriously, just be yourself and if things work out cool, if not oh well. Just make sure to be yourself, people tend to stray away from who they really are on the internet.

[PandaBoy]

best way is to tell her to meet up in person as soon as possible. That way you can establish some physical attraction. At least that's what i do when i do online dating type of relationship. I usually go to idateasia.com for some very exotic looking asian ladies. you can get more feedback for idateasia at http://www.freedatinghelper.com/reviews/idateasia-com/ if you want.

[Piachu]

Well we all have different opinions....I wouldn't call a relationship something that's only online based, I find relationships more serious I guess. But we are all different and have different views, I really didn't want to discourage him.

who says an online relationship can't be serious? I take my online relatioship with my boyfriend very seriously. I don't want anyone but him, and he feels the same about me. we're also very supportive and we send eachother presents via mail. He's planning to come to see me next year, so it wouldn't have been impossible for the two of you to meet, just because you lived in different countries :)

[PinkFloyd]

My advise is to meet in real life, and move from there.