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Apophis
June 19th, 2013, 08:24 AM
Well Honestly I don't know where to start..

Well anyways I like these two girls, one lives in England and the other lives in the states. I won't tell the names but I honestly am confused.. I really like the one in the states more, I feel like my heart is telling me to go with her. But the thing is the one in England likes me as well, she talks about me all the time and people are telling me she's the perfect one for me! The thing is I don't want to lose my friendship with the one in England. Plus I don't want to let my friends down! But I honestly like the girl in the states. Anyways I'm confused on what to do about this, cause I honestly don't want to lose both of these girls but I can only choose one at the end of the day. But as I said I don't want to let my friends down cause they've always been here for me but I just feel like I'm under pressure.. I like both but I like the one in the states more. I just don't know anymore. :confused:

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

indoxyl
June 19th, 2013, 08:36 AM
In my opinion, it doesn't matter what your friends say. If they like the england girl they can just go date her. But if YOU want to date the girl in the states then I say go for it because it seems like she means more to you than the other girl. At the end of the day you have to do what you want, not what anybody else wants for you.

Apophis
June 19th, 2013, 08:43 AM
In my opinion, it doesn't matter what your friends say. If they like the england girl they can just go date her. But if YOU want to date the girl in the states then I say go for it because it seems like she means more to you than the other girl. At the end of the day you have to do what you want, not what anybody else wants for you.

That's the problem, She's such a sweet girl I'd hate to hurt her, but I also feel that the one in the states is the one for me. I mean I do want to be friends with the one in England.

Conqueror of Hearts
June 19th, 2013, 09:18 AM
Decide whatever you want. Forget about your friends cause at the end of the day you are the one who will probably date one of those two girls. You can still have the england girl as a friend. Good luck anyways :)

Synyster Shadows
June 20th, 2013, 05:07 AM
well someone's heart will be broken. You just have to follow your heeart and make it as gentle on the other girl as possible

DerBear
June 20th, 2013, 06:03 AM
Like Andrew said above me, either way one girl will be upset, you can't please everyone. I would suggest you go with the one you have stronger feelings for because if you don't then you might regret it.

Apophis
June 20th, 2013, 08:32 AM
Thank's for all the feedback guys, its just hard cause in the end they are both sweet girls but as I said I can only choose one in the end. I do want to stay close friends with the one in England but we sort of I don't know but like we just started not talking to each other anymore. Even though she says she likes me and that you'd think she'd pop up on facebook. But she hasn't lately, so it leaves me wondering are we even gonna be close friends anymore cause of this. But I do like the one in the states. But anyways thank's again for all the feedback! :)

HockeyLovesMe
June 20th, 2013, 09:09 AM
i thnk you should go with the one that u like most and if u ask her to be ur gf and she says no then u can go for the other girl :) hope it works out