Im in love

[kutethang101]

Ok well i was going out with this guy and he dumped me.
but he dumped me couse i was acting weard,and i was acting weard bcuz everyone said he was going to dump me but he wasnt going to.
i was only avoiding him bcuz i didnt wanna get dumped cuz i love him.
And now he is going out with my bff.When they kissed infront of me i cryed so much.I cant forget him.Ever time i see his face i cant breath.he is stuck in my head for life.what can i do to get him back?

[Trampster]

Rule one.
Don't use love as a reason to get people back.

I think you should write him a letter. That way, no ones shouting and no one can interupt.

Let ALL your feelings out and explain why you were acting cautious.

Tell us the results :D

[mixedupfool]

im going to assume you mean getting him back as in get him to be with you again,

just talk to him. tell him how you feel, tell him there was a misunderstanding about the acting weird and all that

[Glasgow]

You don't love him. From the sounds of it you are still young and its just another passing phase, you may think you love him now but you don't really. And he obviously doesn't take relationships seriously if hes going out with another girl already, especially if its your "bff"

[Maddi]

You don't love him. From the sounds of it you are still young and its just another passing phase, you may think you love him now but you don't really. And he obviously doesn't take relationships seriously if hes going out with another girl already, especially if its your "bff"

Unless he's really going for a "trying to make you jealous" role.

It will pass in time, you've just got to allow it to happen. You should talk to him, as someone said before write him a letter, that's what I did after I got out of my 11 month relationship suddenly. It really helps with getting closure, which I don't think you got much of. So just sit down and let it all out.

Good luck. :]

[byee]

So sorry for you, this sounds painful! But, there's an important lesson here. Don't listen to idle gossip. If you 'hear' from anyone but the person themselves, disregard it. If what you've heard bothers you, ask the supposed speaker if they in fact said it.

[ideasman]

Theres a first love and a true love.. EVERYONE GETS BOTH, and very rarely are they one and the same person
This sounds very much like a first love..
Did you want to be with someon who doesnt love and respect you enough to dtae your BFF and kiss her infront of you? I know your prb thinking he doesnt mean it, or trying to rationalise this in you head, but he's not showing you that he loves you back, so before you try and "get him back" and allow him to look down on you..let him go, be the best person you can be, and show him and the world what they're missing out on instead of pining over someone thats not worth your time ;)