A guy said that the girl I asked out is lying about going out with me.

[clueless_one]

I asked out the girl I like just recently and now a guy who knows the girl I asked out is saying that she is lying that she accepted to go out with me. She showed me signs of liking me which led to me asking her out. Almost everyone in my school knows that she said yes to going out with me and this boy tells me that she is lying, just because and that she doesn't look at me that way.

What am I to do? It looks like she likes me back and I asked her out and she said yes. Both her and the boy who told me that she is lying are friends on fb and its made me really worried. Please help :'(

[AMGForever]

Dude as a say again ignore the people just focus on her okay juts tune them out

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Really forget about other ppl and what they have to say, just talk to her.

[clueless_one]

Dude as a say again ignore the people just focus on her okay juts tune them out

Really forget about other ppl and what they have to say, just talk to her.

She said that one day I said she had a birthday party, the other day she said she was busy. Another day she said that she would go out with me and then made the excuse that she had tutoring.

I would think that if I asked out a girl, she would start to send text messages after asked out to show she is interested. This girl has not done that. Her friends look at me and talk about me and her and say she likes me but now I don't believe them. So what should I do?

[AMGForever]

look pull her aside ask if she is will be stay true with the dating/relationship you guys have going on and make sure its private like after school or during something busy where everyone's distracted

[clueless_one]

look pull her aside ask if she is will be stay true with the dating/relationship you guys have going on and make sure its private like after school or during something busy where everyone's distracted

So do you think I should ask her. One of the boys told me that you are lying about wanting to go out with me. Is it true or do you actually want to go out with me.

[indoxyl]

Seriously stop worrying about what everybody else thinks. This whole things is absurd. Just gain some confidence and ask her instead of just being like 'o some guy said she hates me man what do i do'

[clueless_one]

Seriously stop worrying about what everybody else thinks. This whole things is absurd. Just gain some confidence and ask her instead of just being like 'o some guy said she hates me man what do i do'

Well you don't know how it feels being a shy guy without anyone available to help and support you when all your friends just bully you and push you around and also being an only child.

[AMGForever]

Well you don't know how it feels being a shy guy without anyone available to help and support you when all your friends just bully you and push you around and also being an only child.

i understand what it feels like i really do and yes talk to her and IGNORE the people that keep bothering you okay

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Well maybe you should text her first....girls tend to be quite strict about that. Sometimes girls refuse to text first, you'll probably have to be more persistent. Maybe she feels the pressure from her friends, just take it slowly and really don't ask her friends anything, if you want to know something always ask her.Good luck! :)

[clueless_one]

i understand what it feels like i really do and yes talk to her and IGNORE the people that keep bothering you okay

Well maybe you should text her first....girls tend to be quite strict about that. Sometimes girls refuse to text first, you'll probably have to be more persistent. Maybe she feels the pressure from her friends, just take it slowly and really don't ask her friends anything, if you want to know something always ask her.Good luck! :)

Just help me out here. There is another girl who I feel who likes me, and if it appears that the girl I asked out is lying I feel that maybe I could ask her out instead.

Signs she likes me

She looks at me a few times

She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters)

She touched/tapped my arm and back when she was telling me something

I had asked out another girl and she was surprised saying that I have a girlfriend. One of the boys told me that the girl I asked out doesn’t like me and doesn’t want to go out with me and this girl stood up for me saying just talk to her and said that she thinks the girl I asked out won’t do such a thing.

She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport.

I’m getting the feeling I’ve made a mistake asking out the girl I asked out and should have asked out this girl.

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Easy bro....from one girl we jumped to 3 girls haha :D The problem is : you dont know what you want. Really how much do you like the one who never came to the date? It seemed that you really liked her, I mean you keep asking how to deal with things about her and now there is another one. Well that's great but you don't want to make the same mistake. Also you're overthinking about signs and stuff... I can't tell if she likes you or not, but if you like her only because you think she likes you then thats not going to work. Also if you ask too many girls out now then non of them is going to show up, cause they'll think you're just playing around. So make up your mind first and decide who do you really want to ask out.

[AMGForever]

okay do this pull the girl (the one your dating) aside and talk if it doesn't end well then break up and go straight to the other girl and make sure you acknowledged what she's done and ask her if she wants to go out with you

if this does happen you be sure to be nice to her

[AMGForever]

Easy bro....from one girl we jumped to 3 girls haha :D The problem is : you dont know what you want. Really how much do you like the one who never came to the date? It seemed that you really liked her, I mean you keep asking how to deal with things about her and now there is another one. Well that's great but you don't want to make the same mistake. Also you're overthinking about signs and stuff... I can't tell if she likes you or not, but if you like her only because you think she likes you then thats not going to work. Also if you ask too many girls out now then non of them is going to show up, cause they'll think you're just playing around. So make up your mind first and decide who do you really want to ask out.

ignore want i said

[oohlala]

Well maybe you should text her first....girls tend to be quite strict about that. Sometimes girls refuse to text first, you'll probably have to be more persistent. Maybe she feels the pressure from her friends, just take it slowly and really don't ask her friends anything, if you want to know something always ask her.Good luck! :)

ok, so this is coming from a girl so it is true that we usually do wait for the boy to make a move first because we don't wanna seem annoying or pushy or pressuring or anything. so maybe you should text her first next time.

look pull her aside ask if she is will be stay true with the dating/relationship you guys have going on and make sure its private like after school or during something busy where everyone's distracted

you should definitely do this. make sure there are no friends with here and that no one can hear your conversation. don't text her the question. if you text us girls a question like that, we might not take it seriously and won't reply.

She said that one day I said she had a birthday party, the other day she said she was busy. Another day she said that she would go out with me and then made the excuse that she had tutoring.

I would think that if I asked out a girl, she would start to send text messages after asked out to show she is interested. This girl has not done that. Her friends look at me and talk about me and her and say she likes me but now I don't believe them. So what should I do?

well, maybe she actually did have a birthday party, was busy, and had to tutor but then again, if she really wanted to go on a date with you, wouldn't she have cancelled or something and tried to make time for you?

and about the other girl. does she have a boyfriend? is she interested in you or just being plain friendly and kind? if you really are interested and pissed of with your current girl, talk to the girl that you're dating now, ask here what the hell is going on bla bla bla bla and if she's tired of you or something and doesn't want you anymore then you could go after the other girl. but do you really like this other girl? because don't get her hopes up and show her signs when in the end something like this just might happen to her. :/

damn, this is confusing

[DerBear]

Can I ask, have you ever thought that this "Boy" is just jealous of you and her and is just trying to stir things up?

[clueless_one]

Can I ask, have you ever thought that this "Boy" is just jealous of you and her and is just trying to stir things up?

yeah I thought of that. But also there were boys in my class annoying me and her. She talks to the teacher who wanted to know what was happening, she then whispered something to the teacher covering her face from me and the teacher told her to move and she said thank you. Its making me think she doesn't want to sit next to me/be with me. But she still looks at me during lunch and morning tea from her group... So I'm just really unsure.

[indoxyl]

yeah I thought of that. But also there were boys in my class annoying me and her. She talks to the teacher who wanted to know what was happening, she then whispered something to the teacher covering her face from me and the teacher told her to move and she said thank you. Its making me think she doesn't want to sit next to me/be with me. But she still looks at me during lunch and morning tea from her group... So I'm just really unsure.

Oh my good lord. This other girl is probably just being friendly and nice. Half of these signs youre thinking way to hard about and im sure she hardly thinks theyre signs of liking you. Can i ask you homestly, why are you so obsessed with getting a girlfriend? For the past week you've been jumping between four different girls. Do you even like these girls or do you just want a relationship?