Log in

View Full Version : What should I do?


Synyster Shadows
June 18th, 2013, 07:50 PM
So there's this girl at school that I want to get to know better. I know her a bit since she's in a few classes but they're specials that rotate through the cycle and I want to get to know her better. I did ask her for her number but she said she doesn't use her phone much and wouldn't give it to me. I'm not too surprised because she's a bit on the quiet side. But as the end of school is a week and a half away, I'm running out of time before summer. I'll see her this thursday, friday, and possibly next friday. Very tight schedule as you can see.

So, what should I do?

Conqueror of Hearts
June 19th, 2013, 05:00 PM
Well what about facebook? Any mutal friends??

oohlala
June 20th, 2013, 04:26 AM
well, you could always do the whole "confess your feelings" option. or maybe ask her friends or around for her number so that you can text her over the break and slowly get closer to her? but have you ever considered that maybe she didn't give you her number because she doesn't want to be more than friends with you? (no offense just consider that) or you could always send a friend request to her on facebook? i can't really think of anything else because you didn't write that much but just don't give up, k? at least your problem is a lot less complicated than mine :/

STEALTHy
June 20th, 2013, 04:42 AM
Just get to be her friend, trust me I was in the same situation as you and it ended in horror. Just stalk her Facebook page look at what she has liked. Then if she has liked anything you like as well then that serves as a thing you 2 have in common. Then just bump into her "accidentally" between classes and be a sweet heart and say something along the lines of "Ohh I'm so sorry are you ok?" Then crack a small small small joke into there and just give her a smile.

You do not wanna rush it otherwise it will FAIL!!!

Synyster Shadows
June 20th, 2013, 04:58 AM
Oops, I forgot to mention, I don't have any social networking accounts. No FB, Twitter, you name it.

@peopledocare, there's one, but that friend thinks I like her. I used to but now, obviously, I like this other girl.

DerBear
June 20th, 2013, 06:12 AM
Does she have any outside activities or in school activities that you know of? If so you could possibly think of joining them and becoming friends but then again you did mention that you're on a limited schedule and time is running out.

I think you might just have to strike up a conversation with her and get to know her a little bit more. It will be hard but you just have to think of it like jumping into a pool of cold water, deep breath and then take the plunge :|

Otherwise you could consider getting Facebook and seeing if she is on facebook and possibly take that approach. You don't have to commit to facebook you can delete it anytime or never visit it.

Conqueror of Hearts
June 20th, 2013, 06:58 AM
Well maybe you should make a Facebook account, that way you can chat with her online and arrage to meet. Other thing you could is telling her how you feel face to face until school ends, but if you think it's too early for that then FB is something I would to in that situation.

Synyster Shadows
June 21st, 2013, 08:58 PM
All right people, I have made my FB account, but it's all I had time for. I will look for her later, like 2moro. One step closer though, right?

Trenton_
June 21st, 2013, 09:33 PM
So there's this girl at school that I want to get to know better. I know her a bit since she's in a few classes but they're specials that rotate through the cycle and I want to get to know her better. I did ask her for her number but she said she doesn't use her phone much and wouldn't give it to me. I'm not too surprised because she's a bit on the quiet side. But as the end of school is a week and a half away, I'm running out of time before summer. I'll see her this thursday, friday, and possibly next friday. Very tight schedule as you can see.

So, what should I do?

text her

Synyster Shadows
June 22nd, 2013, 09:03 AM
did you read it thoroughly? She wouldn't give me her number

Conqueror of Hearts
June 22nd, 2013, 01:08 PM
All right people, I have made my FB account, but it's all I had time for. I will look for her later, like 2moro. One step closer though, right?

Great! One step closer :)