Does she like him or not?

[Samual]

Ok, so I have a friend who had a girlfriend for, like, 12 hours. The reason of the breakup was because the girl my friend was dating said she wasn't ready for a relationship. But now my friend is always texting her and asking "Do you like me or not?" and her responses are always something like "kinda" or "i dont know". They are currently just friends, but my friend still has feelings for her. Does she actually like him? Is he stuck in the friendzone?

[oohlala]

alright, well, as a girl myself, i'm just gonna say that if he texts her a question like that, he shouldn't expect a straight answer all the time. honestly, there are a few things that could be happening right now:
1) she actually does not have feelings for him after thinking about it and keeps replying with replies like that because she feels uneasy about the topics and doesn't wanna outright say "no" 'cause that would hurt his feelings.
2) she actually does like him and really needs more time to think about it or she's just not ready yet. i, mean, did they go on dates before this or did he just out of the blue asked her to be his girlfriend?

well, idk if she has feelings for him or not. it all depends

[HockeyLovesMe]

friendzoned 100% i thnk that happeens allllllll the time in my class to and when girls say that they dont like like the guy they are just friends if she liked liked him then she would say ya i kinda like him or watever

[MoonMan]

He's in the very definition of a friendzone right now. Not only does she not reciprocate his feelings in the same way (fairly obvious) but she won't even give him a straight answer, instead she flip flops around toying with the guy's emotions. It's really not that hard, if you don't like someone just be honest for fuck's sake. You can take all the time in the world, but you can never truly force an attraction no matter how long you dwell on it trying to "think" about your emotions which should've came naturally by now. I'd rather be rejected in front of the entire class then have someone do this to me, because at least then I can move on from the situation. Meanwhile this guy is stuck in a stagnant state of parallel emotions of hope and doubt until this girl feels ready to reveal the answer she probably instictively knew in the first place. I never understood why guys are generally expected to make the first move if, in turn, the girl is not expected to have an honest response at hand.

[Cygnus]

A good ammount of teenage relationships last hours or a day, so yeah, she might have regretted it and basically sent him to a black hole.

[DerBear]

I think you're looking at two possibilities.

The first is, they are in the friends zone and she is unsure if she wants a relationship and is having a hard time understanding her feelings.

The second is, she might not be interested in him but can't bring herself to put him down and is therefore ignoring the real question and putting it off and not answering it fully because she might be worried about how this might affect the friendship.

Personally I think she might not fully understand her feelings and is a mixture of the two options.

[Samual]

That's what I thought. I wasn't sure though.