SAFoodie
June 18th, 2013, 07:27 PM
Can you please help me restore a friendship and advise me on what to do&say. Everything I said is TRUE, Kevin lied. I have not talked to my friends in CA for years........
COPY of an Email Conversation with comments
ME
?Hey kevin?
Of all the hurtful stuff you said? And with the inappropriate phone calls at 2-3am ish in eastern time? Which occured Jan 2011 Which Pushed Me Even More to stop staying in contact with everyone I knew in HS, and with those I thought were strong friendships.....
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ASK ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS for details........sorry about the title there was an obvious typo
I am hopfull the friend request is genuine. I am optimistic of a positive outcome.:)....ill ttyl
-Darvy
True
KEVIN
Wow! That was 2 years ago. Quite a memory. I don't really even remember that at all. Hope everything is going well for you!
I hope he is not Denying what he Did.....it felt like harassment towards the fact I am BI and he is calling me GAY. Jordon, another friend, asked if I wanted a relationship and that we are just friends. In a way I avoid the question. Jordon stop talking to me. KEVIN was the only one talking to me and said hurtful stuff......now Jordon is BI and he and others wont talk to me.......KEVIN again is talking to me BUT HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO SAID REALLY MEAN, HURTFUL STUFF TO ME. Jordon was my best friend.
ME
Really?
..okay....ummm hmmm I'm okay and so far is not bad. I'm taking time off from school and stuff, hanging out with family relatives and visiting friends....
I hopfull for you too! And how are things?
KEVIN
Where are you going to school?
Things are great. I'm about to move to ________CA. I lived with Jordon in _________ CAall last year
MAIN WANTED RESULT:
take a picture of the entire email conversation and give JORDON PROOF.......
Things I a may WANT
.1)I WANT Kevin to know that I don't want to talk to him BECAUSE OF what he did but I AM FORGIVING(+ outcome) if he CAN admit it we will talk again and become friends2)I also want to show that if he LIES that It did not happen I won't talk to him and remove him from my friends list.......
Overall I want Truth , proof and my Friend Jordon first and Kevin second.
what do I say or do to RESTORE and get the results that I want?? Please help! :(
COPY of an Email Conversation with comments
ME
?Hey kevin?
Of all the hurtful stuff you said? And with the inappropriate phone calls at 2-3am ish in eastern time? Which occured Jan 2011 Which Pushed Me Even More to stop staying in contact with everyone I knew in HS, and with those I thought were strong friendships.....
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ASK ADDITIONAL QUESTIONS for details........sorry about the title there was an obvious typo
I am hopfull the friend request is genuine. I am optimistic of a positive outcome.:)....ill ttyl
-Darvy
True
KEVIN
Wow! That was 2 years ago. Quite a memory. I don't really even remember that at all. Hope everything is going well for you!
I hope he is not Denying what he Did.....it felt like harassment towards the fact I am BI and he is calling me GAY. Jordon, another friend, asked if I wanted a relationship and that we are just friends. In a way I avoid the question. Jordon stop talking to me. KEVIN was the only one talking to me and said hurtful stuff......now Jordon is BI and he and others wont talk to me.......KEVIN again is talking to me BUT HE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO SAID REALLY MEAN, HURTFUL STUFF TO ME. Jordon was my best friend.
ME
Really?
..okay....ummm hmmm I'm okay and so far is not bad. I'm taking time off from school and stuff, hanging out with family relatives and visiting friends....
I hopfull for you too! And how are things?
KEVIN
Where are you going to school?
Things are great. I'm about to move to ________CA. I lived with Jordon in _________ CAall last year
MAIN WANTED RESULT:
take a picture of the entire email conversation and give JORDON PROOF.......
Things I a may WANT
.1)I WANT Kevin to know that I don't want to talk to him BECAUSE OF what he did but I AM FORGIVING(+ outcome) if he CAN admit it we will talk again and become friends2)I also want to show that if he LIES that It did not happen I won't talk to him and remove him from my friends list.......
Overall I want Truth , proof and my Friend Jordon first and Kevin second.
what do I say or do to RESTORE and get the results that I want?? Please help! :(