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cowlover
June 18th, 2013, 04:02 PM
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over a month. She keeps talking about sex. I have told her that I am not ready for sex yet, but she keeps asking about it and talking about it. I don't feel the same way about her as I did when we first met. I have thought about breaking up, but I don't want to lose her as a friend. She is an amazing friend, I don't want to loose her.:what:

Miserabilia
June 18th, 2013, 04:04 PM
If you are not ready for sex, you just aren't ready. if thats all that keeping her to you then you have to tell her its not gonna work.

cowlover
June 18th, 2013, 04:08 PM
I'm not keeping it from her...I have told her that I don't want to have it until I'm ready...

Rina
June 18th, 2013, 04:15 PM
If she doesn't seem to understand that you're not ready and she keeps pressuring you, I would break up with her. You don't have to stand by someone who doesn't seem to take no for an answer. Doesn't seem like the best of friends either, imo, if they don't understand you.

Cooper197
June 19th, 2013, 12:52 AM
Honestly it seems like breaking up with her is the best choice/what I would do. You may not end up friends right at first, but you'll both come around eventually, and if by chance you don't, look at is an opportunity to meet and become friends with new people!

Synyster Shadows
June 19th, 2013, 05:08 AM
I agree with cyana. I don't think she's really that much of a friend to you if she keeps pressuring you and won't take no for an answer.
I commend you for knowing you aren't ready. I don't think many guys would admit they aren't ready. So, kudos.
Just break up with her, find someone new. If you lose her as a friend, it really doesn't matter because it doesn't seem like she's a friend. Real friends respect your opinions. Good luck.