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Hey There2132
June 18th, 2013, 11:26 AM
hey there :) my question is.... Does it mean im gay if I like to wear female clothes such as underwear or bras under my shirts or shorts? like I even wear them when im at school! im just wondering because I don't know why I do its just always has made me my whole life basically.... *also would you have any suggestions on how to ask for my own female clothes? im scared to ask my parents because I don't think they will understand. thanks for any replies I get! :what::what::what::confused:

Elysium
June 18th, 2013, 11:28 AM
Your sexuality has nothing to do with what you wear. Your choice of clothing has more to do with your gender or behavior, not with who you're attracted to. You could just be a male cross dresser - a male cross dresser came to visit my school once, he was a great singer and I can't remember his stage name - or you could be transgender.

Hey There2132
June 18th, 2013, 11:31 AM
Your sexuality has nothing to do with what you wear. Your choice of clothing has more to do with your gender or behavior, not with who you're attracted to. You could just be a male cross dresser - a male cross dresser came to visit my school once, he was a great singer and I can't remember his stage name - or you could be transgender.

Thank You :) that helps a bit

Elysium
June 18th, 2013, 11:33 AM
Thank You :) that helps a bit
Whatever I can do to help. I'm really interested in gender and sexuality. Wearing feminine clothing might not mean anything about you except that you like wearing feminine clothing. If it does mean anything, you might not know it yet. Some people don't figure out who they are until they're adults.

GigglyAbby
June 18th, 2013, 03:13 PM
Agree with the advice given. Now to your question about having your parents buying you girl clothes - sadly I too think they won't understand. If you had a close female friend -- maybe she could help you out.

teen.jpg
June 18th, 2013, 03:43 PM
No. That doesn't even have anything to do with sexuality.

Hey There2132
June 18th, 2013, 04:00 PM
Ok! I just asked my mom.... She said Yes!!!!I honestly was really scared but she said yes!!!!!!!

kenoloor
June 18th, 2013, 04:19 PM
This is a Venn Diagram.

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_llm1qktzAc1qjb6pfo1_1280.png?.jpg

Altiier
June 18th, 2013, 10:23 PM
It does not have to have any relation at all to your sexual orientation, if you like to do it, why not do it :)

Ben4ever
June 18th, 2013, 11:23 PM
Ok! I just asked my mom.... She said Yes!!!!I honestly was really scared but she said yes!!!!!!!

Congrats mate! You are not alone! Just remember that!

indoxyl
June 19th, 2013, 08:45 AM
Nothing here bloopbloop

Ethan15
June 19th, 2013, 09:52 AM
Why would you be gay?

justin 13
June 21st, 2013, 10:11 AM
I really want 2 help u dude BUT I dont get y u like to wear chick stuff.

peaceloveanarchy
June 21st, 2013, 02:16 PM
Its all personal preference :D Gender roles are useless, artificial and discriminatory, as long as you aren't hurting anyone else, do what makes you happy :) Plus imho i think tube tops/skirts/thongs etc. can be SUPER cute on the right guy :3 Cross-dress to your heart's content!

jaxian rhyder
June 21st, 2013, 02:22 PM
I really want 2 help u dude BUT I dont get y u like to wear chick stuff.

Same here

crepesuzette
June 22nd, 2013, 08:49 PM
You might be transgender, but gay?

a lot of people use the word gay for various reasons. Like eww that's so gay or that person is gay right there cuhs he's wearing something that's not conventional or something that's just too young for his age. I hate when they use it like that. it just annoys the crap out of me.

Purplebunny
June 23rd, 2013, 10:09 AM
It does not make you gay, it just mean you feel more comfortable in girl clothing. I don't see a problem with that :P

Purplebunny
June 23rd, 2013, 10:21 AM
I wear girl jeans, and it hasen't changed my sexual preference. :P