Never had a girlfriend

[crazyguy123]

I'm 15 and never had a girlfriend and still isn't looking good, anyone with the same problem? Or is it just me

[joliver]

I'm 18 and I have only had 1 when I was 14, but I'm still a virgin.

[SamB]

Don't worry about it, you don't need a girlfriend to get by. You're still young and have lots of your life ahead of you so there's no need to worry about it really

[Woryh]

i still havnt had a gf,,,,,, :/

[harley95]

I'm 18 and never had a girl friend and I don't want one because I'm too busy

[DerBear]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Chelsea716]

Here's what a girl thinks (me):
Look, I've been with ONE guy when I was 13 (it was for a few months, left because he acted like a jerk). I'm 14 now and in think having a real BF would be lovely. Of you feel ready for one, do some reasearch befor getting one. Find out if you are ready. I think brig single is great as a teen. Having good friends is all you really need.

[HockeyLovesMe]

Here's what a girl thinks (me):
Look, I've been with ONE guy when I was 13 (it was for a few months, left because he acted like a jerk). I'm 14 now and in think having a real BF would be lovely. Of you feel ready for one, do some reasearch befor getting one. Find out if you are ready. I think brig single is great as a teen. Having good friends is all you really need.

i agree!!!!!! :):)

[Walter Powers]

I'm 15 and I don't have a girlfriend, either. But I figure I'll have one probably by senior year. Right now it'd just be unneeded drama and distraction.

And I agree with Chelsea about how it can be good to be single as a teen.

Double post merged. ~Elysium

[Jeremy08]

..meanwhile, God says, '' I'm saving this man called crazyguy123 for someone special''. HAHA.

You have nothing to worry about man. Just keep going with your life and someone deserving of you will turn up. Basically, one thing you can do is wait it out. I'm not saying that you should not be looking for someone, but it's just not an easy process when you're on the verge of graduating from your first degree and applying for the second, working through 5 reading/writing heavy classes, and trying to get enough sleep so that you don't look like a wreck the next day. Just don't worry about it at all, it will all happen naturally in the end. Be patient and be yourself. Keep your confidence high and socialize. It will happen eventually. Have you ever fell in love with someone? Don't be afraid to make the first move!

Now bump ma fist and live your life bro.

[HollisterGirl98]

Don't worry you'll find someone :). My best advice to you is not to look for love first, but instead look for a good friendship. Once you make a good friend where you guys trust each other and hangout a lot, that's when you know to make a move on her and ask her out on a date

Hope this helps!!

[Elysium]

I've never had any type of relationship, either. You're not alone.

[Jess]

My brother's 20 and he's never been in any relationship. I'm a couple years younger; same thing. No need to rush; I'm sure you'll find someone.

[Conqueror of Hearts]

No need to worry really, I had a so called bf at the age of 14 and I do think I was waaaay to young for something like that. No need to rush, just live your life and enjoy being a teen :)

[DerBear]

My brother's 20 and he's never been in any relationship. I'm a couple years younger; same thing. No need to rush; I'm sure you'll find someone.

This, you have no need to rush you'll eventually find the right person :)

[dontfiguremeout]

Everyone's different when it comes to relationships. There will be people who's ready early and then there will be people who isn't. You just aren't ready! And that's okay! Take your time and don't rush things!

[james smith]

i also don't have

[Sweeper]

You're 15. You'll be fine. It's not a race. I didn't have my first boyfriend until 16.

[Horte]

Ok.. I'm going to give you two answers from rtwo standpoints
To start with, I have had a number of girlfriends (I'm 21 now), and I am NOT a virgin.

I lost my virginity with my third gf, and had pretty much lost hope until i her. What you need to understand is that having a gf has nothing to do with being happy. I've had utterly miserable times even while having multiple gfs at the same time. Having someone to talk to openly and share everything is awesome, bt a really good friend is better for that. Also, at the moment, what you need to concentrate on is studies. Looks alone can get you girls, but wont keep them. If you need the best girls, you need to have brains, period. So, stop feeling miserable, and start concentrating on stuff that matters- studies and sports.
Now from another standpoint- if you really feel that you are doing really well in studies, sports, and feel that you really need a partner at the MOMENT to get on with life, start working for getting one.

You'dd need to put effort in- getting girls isn't easy business. First of all, find places where you can meet girls. I don't need to advice you on that. Co-gymns, music classes, and the like. Then jut go get into random conversations with them. It's ok if you stammer while talking. Just keep talking. You'll get better in time. After you've known any girl for at least 3 weeks, ask them out. That is all there is to it, and that is how it is done. Best of luck!

[everlong]

That really isn't a big deal. You're still young, you got a lot of years ahead of you for dating.

[StoppingTom]

You're young, and it's really not the end-all be-all thing it's made out to be (it's nice and all, but eh.) unless you find THE ONE.

You've got a lot of time to grow as a person, and I wouldn't sweat it.

[Elysium]

i also don't have
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