When is it that a girl is known as a girlfriend?

[clueless_one]

When asking out a girl I said if she will like to go and meet up at the shops. She let out a smile and said yes. Now the news is starting to spread. Most are saying that I have a date with a girl (even the girl I like is calling it a date). Others are calling her my girlfriend. So at what point is a girl your girlfriend. Is it at the point you ask a girl out and she accepts?.

[Walter Powers]

Is the point you call somebody a friend when you first meet them? I don't think so. I don't know for sure when she's technically your girlfriend, but I do know it's not the moment you ask her out for the first time!

[clueless_one]

I asked out the girl I like and she said yes. Many people in my class are saying that I now have a girlfriend but I just asked her out for the first time. So at what point is a girl your girlfriend? Is it when she starts obviously helping you, is it at the point a girl thinks that i've asked her out on a date or do I have to physically ask her that I would like her to be my girlfriend. Some of my friends are now calling her my girlfriend so I'm now really confused. She also knows I like her so...
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[AMGForever]

look ignore the people and once the relationship is serious between you two that's when you're a boyfriend and shes your girlfriend you get it

[clueless_one]

look ignore the people and once the relationship is serious between you two that's when you're a boyfriend and shes your girlfriend you get it

I thought that it was as simple as asking out a girl (be that any way). If she accepts, she is your girlfriend and if not she is not interested in that way. This is the first girl I have asked out and got a yes and and i'm now not sure if there is a difference between dating a girl and being in a relationship (girlfriend and boyfriend)

[AMGForever]

first of all you just asked her out its not an automatic bf and gf. There is a difference between dating and a full on relationship.

answer these

are you committed to her

is she ready for this (maturity)

are you ready

[clueless_one]

first of all you just asked her out its not an automatic bf and gf. There is a difference between dating and a full on relationship.

answer these

are you committed to her

is she ready for this (maturity)

are you ready

What do you mean by committed

When other people call her my girlfriend she doesn't care. She just looks at me and doesn't say anything. She has also herd others call her my girlfriend too and she doesn't say anything about it being just a date.

[AMGForever]

that's what i mean by ignoring the people, (i presume) she probably understands that this is just dating nothing more YET

and by committed will you do the necessary sacrifices and i don't mean throw away everything you know for her

and do back down from this (again a presumption that you think your ready to date)

[clueless_one]

that's what i mean by ignoring the people, (i presume) she probably understands that this is just dating nothing more YET

and by committed will you do the necessary sacrifices and i don't mean throw away everything you know for her

and do back down from this (again a presumption that you think your ready to date)

i'm starting to give up about it. Don't girlfriends and boyfriends go on dates. To me that means asking a girl out means you are asking to enter into a relationship. It's just making me more and more confused and I don't want to ask her to be my girlfriend (if it isn't a relationship) on the first date because she might get creeped out and won't speak to me again.:( I'm not sure what to do.

[AzuPazu]

Classes will always gossip. Heck when they see a girl and boy talk they'll think they're dating (at least that's how it goes around in my school).
And since you haven't asked her to be your gf I suppose she still isn't.
But since she accepted to go on a date it does mean she's interested so that's a good thing :).
You should ask her really.
Good luck !

[clueless_one]

Classes will always gossip. Heck when they see a girl and boy talk they'll think they're dating (at least that's how it goes around in my school).
And since you haven't asked her to be your gf I suppose she still isn't.
But since she accepted to go on a date it does mean she's interested so that's a good thing :).
You should ask her really.
Good luck !

But why do boyfriends and girlfriends go out for dates. So why is it that if I ask out a girl its only a date, why can't it be that if I ask out a girl a relationship starts.

[Elysium]

Communication is key. Talk to her about it.

[DerBear]

Threads merged due to a similar topic ~Derri

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Dude, calm down! ;) If you asked her out and she said yes then good for you, that is the first step, but that doesn't mean you two are in a relationship. Date is a meeting that you have arranged with your bf or gf OR WITH SB WHO MIGHT BECOME YOUR GF. Get it? :) For this first time just go out with her as with girl you like, date is here for you to get to know each other better so you could see if you really want to be with that person. You can go on several dates and still be just friends, becoming gf and bf is something that will happen spontaneously. So just calm down, because you seem quite nervous, just relax and enjoy your date. :)

[nDroid]

don't let them screw over your brain. problem is...if she hears what other people are saying she might missunderstand it and blame you for bragging..been there.

[teen.jpg]

I don't think you're ready for a relationship if you have this many questions.

[AzuPazu]

But why do boyfriends and girlfriends go out for dates. So why is it that if I ask out a girl its only a date, why can't it be that if I ask out a girl a relationship starts.

Because there are lots of different cases of dates, like I went to the cinema with guys before but that doesn't mean I'm willing to date them, frankly they're just friends to me.
A relationship would start if she agrees, it doesn't come just from your side.
Like persons commenting here told you: ask her.
That's the key to knowing if you 2 are dating.

[Prince of Rome]

She becomes your girlfriend when it goes on Facebook. If its not there, it's not real. Same with marriage, you can have the marriage ceremony, but you're only truly married if its on Facebook.







lol jk :P haha


She becomes your girlfriend when you ask "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" It's that simple. But you first must get to know the girl.

[indoxyl]

there is a difference between dating and a relationship
dating is finding out if you have a connection of some sorts and if the person is someone you really want to date. if that goes well after a couple dates then why not ask her to be your girlfriend
you can't rush these kinds of things. you need to calm down.

[workingatperfect]

If you go on a date with a girl, you're free to see other people. It's basically just getting to know her, to see if you want to be with her. As of that point, you don't have any commitment to her. Talk to her about it. Just say something like, so everyone's calling you my girlfriend, is that what you want? Or do you want to take it slower?

You're probably young, since those rumors are kind of junior high. In middle school, a lot of times if you ask someone out you're like, automatically dating, but it's still best to ask her how she feels about it.

[indoxyl]

You're probably young, since those rumors are kind of junior high.

the kid told me he was eighteen

[clueless_one]

If you go on a date with a girl, you're free to see other people. It's basically just getting to know her, to see if you want to be with her. As of that point, you don't have any commitment to her. Talk to her about it. Just say something like, so everyone's calling you my girlfriend, is that what you want? Or do you want to take it slower?

You're probably young, since those rumors are kind of junior high. In middle school, a lot of times if you ask someone out you're like, automatically dating, but it's still best to ask her how she feels about it.

the kid told me he was eighteen

And also many people have said that when I ask out a girl she is my girlfriend. Maybe not straight after you ask them out, but from the day of the date, she is your girlfriend (what I was told from a friend). Also, many other people said that the girl I asked out (who said yes and then said she didn't want to go out with me) is now my girlfriend.

It just got me confused.

[lipstick_kisses23]

It's when you ask her to be your girlfriend and she says yes then you share a milkshake at friendly's =]

[CyrustheGreat]

dude, STOP THINKING ABOUT IT! *ahem* your REEEEAAALLLYYY over thinking this man. your brains gonna quit on you soon. hahaha