One Night Stands

[jonnyc64]

Have you ever been apart of a one night stand?
And which side were you on?
Did you regret it?

[HollisterGirl98]

I've never been in one but if I was I would totally regret it

[Steven1]

Never have been and hopefully never will be. I think it's wrong, you should only have sex with your partner in my opinion.

[HollisterGirl98]

Never have been and hopefully never will be. I think it's wrong, you should only have sex with your partner in my opinion.

Exactly my thoughts!! I think sex should be romantic and shared between a couple

[Steven1]

Exactly my thoughts!! I think sex should be romantic and shared between a couple

Woohoo, least I'm not the only teenager in the 21st century who thinks that and that its not 'just sex'.

[jonnyc64]

nice to see some good hearted people for once. the teens at my school brag about it all the time

[Steven1]

Yeah, I think its wrong. In my opinion it's called 'making love' for a reason. Sure, you do it for pleasure and not just to procreate, but it still shouldn't be done with a complete stranger you met in a bar 2 hours previous. It should be between 2 people who are devoted together, have been together for a while, and are in a committed relationship.

[ajp1993]

See now this is where I disagree... There's sex and there's love making. Two different things.
Have I had a one night stand? Yes. Do I regret it? No. Which side was I on? Neither side. We hooked up mutually.
Now do I wish more had come of it? Yes. She was HOT, but it wasn't to be. We both had a good night and moved on.
If both partners know its essentially just a one night stand or its FWB then I see no huge problem with it. It's sex between to consenting individuals. (Please note, that using someone for sex = very bad, especially if they're under the assumption its leading to more).
However to make love to someone, that's very different and much more intimate. It's sex that allows a couple to connect on a whole other level, it isn't just sex for the sake of sex. It's one of the things that separates us from the monkeys we evolved from. At the end of the day anyone reading this probably go out tonight and find someone to have sex with if they really wanted, but it would just be some meaningless fun. To find someone to make love to, that's different, that's special and it actually means something (oh and it usually much more fun)

[rogoshtalmour]

I have.
Idk what you mean about which side of it I was on. Usually it was pretty mutual.
I do regret it though.

[jonnyc64]

by what side I mean were you the one that got stood up or not

[justinglives]

See now this is where I disagree... There's sex and there's love making. Two different things.
Have I had a one night stand? Yes. Do I regret it? No. Which side was I on? Neither side. We hooked up mutually.
Now do I wish more had come of it? Yes. She was HOT, but it wasn't to be. We both had a good night and moved on.
If both partners know its essentially just a one night stand or its FWB then I see no huge problem with it. It's sex between to consenting individuals. (Please note, that using someone for sex = very bad, especially if they're under the assumption its leading to more).
However to make love to someone, that's very different and much more intimate. It's sex that allows a couple to connect on a whole other level, it isn't just sex for the sake of sex. It's one of the things that separates us from the monkeys we evolved from. At the end of the day anyone reading this probably go out tonight and find someone to have sex with if they really wanted, but it would just be some meaningless fun. To find someone to make love to, that's different, that's special and it actually means something (oh and it usually much more fun)

WOW!
Love the way this is phrased!
Theres sex (orgasm for the sake of getting your rocks off) and making live. Like hollistergirl referred to, taking an emotion connection to a whold different level!

[indoxyl]

I've been a part of two one night stands and I knew it was going to happen but I was hoping it wouldn't. unfortunately we ended up having sex and neither of them had talked to me after it.

[jamesbig10]

i have had a few and i must agree with you sex and love making or completly diffrent and no i did not regreat any of them we all know nothing was to come of it and yes love making is way better because there is not just the physicall sensation that is assoisiated with sex theres also the emotinoal and spiritual sensations that go with it

[caliguy]

I have been in a few and on both sides. I have not regretted it however it was agreed that it would not be anything more a head of time

[GigglyAbby]

Exactly my thoughts!! I think sex should be romantic and shared between a couple

AGREED!! Nothing personal and if Hookups or one night stands floats one boat so be it. But in the event birth control fails it may have more struggles than it would in a committed relationship.

[digzchickz]

well i have never had a one night stand. i am in a relationship but if i wasnt i would be ok with having a one night stand, i mean i think sex is better when its with someone you care about but i dont see anything wrong with 2 people hooking up or being FWB until a real relationship happens.

[Camazotz]

See now this is where I disagree... There's sex and there's love making. Two different things.
Have I had a one night stand? Yes. Do I regret it? No. Which side was I on? Neither side. We hooked up mutually.
Now do I wish more had come of it? Yes. She was HOT, but it wasn't to be. We both had a good night and moved on.
If both partners know its essentially just a one night stand or its FWB then I see no huge problem with it. It's sex between to consenting individuals. (Please note, that using someone for sex = very bad, especially if they're under the assumption its leading to more).
However to make love to someone, that's very different and much more intimate. It's sex that allows a couple to connect on a whole other level, it isn't just sex for the sake of sex. It's one of the things that separates us from the monkeys we evolved from. At the end of the day anyone reading this probably go out tonight and find someone to have sex with if they really wanted, but it would just be some meaningless fun. To find someone to make love to, that's different, that's special and it actually means something (oh and it usually much more fun)

This response was so insightful and I definitely have to agree with this.

[Swagging god]

If casual sex ( sex with no romantic strings attached) is the same thing which I really don't think it is then I have had one. I've had sex with someone before just bc we were both single and horny :), but I've never been truly in love with someone, had sex and left the nxt day.

[Steven1]

See now this is where I disagree... There's sex and there's love making. Two different things.
Have I had a one night stand? Yes. Do I regret it? No. Which side was I on? Neither side. We hooked up mutually.
Now do I wish more had come of it? Yes. She was HOT, but it wasn't to be. We both had a good night and moved on.
If both partners know its essentially just a one night stand or its FWB then I see no huge problem with it. It's sex between to consenting individuals. (Please note, that using someone for sex = very bad, especially if they're under the assumption its leading to more).
However to make love to someone, that's very different and much more intimate. It's sex that allows a couple to connect on a whole other level, it isn't just sex for the sake of sex. It's one of the things that separates us from the monkeys we evolved from. At the end of the day anyone reading this probably go out tonight and find someone to have sex with if they really wanted, but it would just be some meaningless fun. To find someone to make love to, that's different, that's special and it actually means something (oh and it usually much more fun)

You've presented a great response, and I can now see the other side of the argument. However, I still feel that sex should be a special experience shared between two people who are in a committed relationship, although I can see why people's opinions differ. There's also a risk involved because if women get's pregnant or one of the people get a serious STD, then there's much more to worry about, whereas between a couple you get a chance to know who's got what, and so can prevent the spread.

[SamB]

I've never had a one night stand and I never would, I would regret it so much. I think its completely morally wrong as well

[StoneColdNicky]

I was a little confused by the 'which side were you on?' question.

[Snookers]

No. Never.

[Ethan15]

Nope

[Josh Schlacter]

fast way to get an STD.

[edd14]

I agree with hollister girl completely. I am still a virgin but have foreplayed. I think sex.should only happen with a partner who you truly love

[Pitsirikos]

I've never been in one but if I was I would totally regret it

I totally agree

[Luminous]

See now this is where I disagree... There's sex and there's love making. Two different things.
Have I had a one night stand? Yes. Do I regret it? No. Which side was I on? Neither side. We hooked up mutually.
Now do I wish more had come of it? Yes. She was HOT, but it wasn't to be. We both had a good night and moved on.
If both partners know its essentially just a one night stand or its FWB then I see no huge problem with it. It's sex between to consenting individuals. (Please note, that using someone for sex = very bad, especially if they're under the assumption its leading to more).
However to make love to someone, that's very different and much more intimate. It's sex that allows a couple to connect on a whole other level, it isn't just sex for the sake of sex. It's one of the things that separates us from the monkeys we evolved from. At the end of the day anyone reading this probably go out tonight and find someone to have sex with if they really wanted, but it would just be some meaningless fun. To find someone to make love to, that's different, that's special and it actually means something (oh and it usually much more fun)

This is perfect. I think a one night stand and when done safely and correctly is OK sometimes as long as it does not become a habit.

I have not had one.

[james smith]

no not yet

[Laura101]

Never have, Never will! If I'm sharing my body with someone, he's going to be someone special and significant to me.

[Daniella98]

I have been in one night stands.
But why does one person have to be stood up or feel sorry about it afterwards.
Ive never lead anyone on just to have sex and get rid of them by being meen.
When Ive been in a one night stand we both knew and agreed it wouldnt lead to a relationship.

So no bad side.

[Abhorrence]

Bumped. :locked: