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moneychex
June 17th, 2013, 03:42 PM
Ok I am posting this here, because I am trying to be support my depressed friend and nothing is working. So my friend has had depression building up for years and now it's coming full course. There are only two people he really talks to now, me and the girl he has a crush on. Me and her have been trying to help him but nothing works, to make matters worse the girl he has a crush on doesn't feel the same way, and she's starting to get annoyed by my friend being depressed all the time (she knows he can't control it though.) He also takes meds for the depression and it's starting to not work anymore. But back to his crush, she has started to stop talking to him and it's causing more depression. Also him and his crush are in a "love-triangle" you could say...because I like her as well and another guy likes her as well...I don't know what to do! Please leave suggestions

Miserabilia
June 17th, 2013, 03:45 PM
Maybe its better if he had a little distance with a crush, and focus on himself first. the crush i would imagine, would only cause more pressure and depresson if she doesnt like him back.

KieranRules
June 17th, 2013, 04:24 PM
It seems it's the harsh reality that you cant help your friend, a crush usually lasts 4 months to a year (rarely a year). this means if know one makes a move then know one can be hurt but saying that, you need to have a life, right? its a hard one this is it depends on what you do every day now and every little thing can affect this all I can say is be careful.