Need help with this girl.

[RafaelF]

Hey guys,

I ride home on the bus to school everyday and the last two left on the bus are usually me and this girl I fancy. She's 15 and I'm 14. I'm not really interested in getting with her, more of just making out with her. I wank to her sometimes and i get boners on the bus. She doesn't know. I don't know what to do. Should I just walk up and kiss her and hope she enjoys it, maybe start jerking in front of her and hope she likes it? I'm confused.

[Poplar]

Walk up and kiss her? I don't think so
Jerking right in front of her? don't even try

[PinkFloyd]

Don't do ANY of that, man! Imagine if you were a girl and some random guy walked up and tried to kiss you. Jerking off in front of her would be even worse. What you need to do is get to know her, and try to become friends with benefits, since you really don't want a relationship. Again, you can't just make huge moves on her like that. You will get in a shit load of trouble.

[GigglyAbby]

Talk to her and try to get to know her and see where things go. If you followed through on your desires -- you could be slapped or arrested -- so please don't do it. Perhaps -- consider seeing a therapist if you continue to think it's ok to kiss someone out of the blue or to give them a j-o show.

[Miri]

Walk up and kiss her? I don't think so
Jerking right in front of her? don't even try

This guy's got it exactly right. Both of those = sexual harassment.

[Sasha M]

Same here man! (Besides the age) But holy shit don't do anything like that! That would be bad. Did you THINK about that before you posted it? God! :D

[rogoshtalmour]

Step 1: Introduce yourself
Step 2: Make light conversation
Step 3: Just make her feel comfortable with you.
Step 4: Ask her.
Once you get a girl just comfortable being around you she is much more pliable to other things. If they trust you, you're golden. This does not mean you should abuse their trust by the way.

[Rapp]

seriously? haha just talk to her bro, cant go wrong with talking, must go way better than jerking infront of her or kissing spontaneously!

[Harry Smith]

this isn't related to puberty :locked: