View Full Version : Am I still allowed to masturbate now I have a gf?
tomfelix
June 17th, 2013, 12:33 PM
I know it sounds kinda weird but I sorta don't feel right about waking more I have a gf... I still do it loads but I feel guilty about doing it without her knowing
Steven1
June 17th, 2013, 12:44 PM
You're still allowed. It's up to you whether you carry on or if you stop though, do what feels right. If it's just because she doesn't know why don't you just tell her.
clmbusboy1
June 17th, 2013, 12:47 PM
Not sure what you're doing with your g/f, are you saving up for her? If you aren't doing stuff thats lets you cum, then I say you gotta masturbate.
NOw if you're thinking of some other girl when doing it, that's a bit different. But if you're thinking about her, then you're fine I would say.
Poplar
June 17th, 2013, 01:13 PM
Seriously? There is no law that says that and everyone masturbates. I bet she does and you are her bf. Dont sweat it
digzchickz
June 17th, 2013, 01:38 PM
dude yeah u should still do it, i have a gf and i still jerk off, i mean just cause im horny doesnt mean my gf is in the mood or is around to do anything about it... and actually jerking off before fooling around can help you to last longer.
Miserabilia
June 17th, 2013, 01:41 PM
its very normal everyone does it no matter what the situation is...
its like eating and going to the bathroom... you basicly need to do it if you are a guy
McMantis
June 17th, 2013, 02:10 PM
According to rule 14-C of the girlfriend rule book you are allowed to. :p joking but of course you can!
Harry Smith
June 17th, 2013, 02:12 PM
Would you really want to tell your girlfriend that you had a wank? It's purely natural for men to do it, I doubt she really cares about it as long as you treat her well
Jevon
June 17th, 2013, 02:13 PM
Lol are you serious of course you can still masturbate
denisss
June 17th, 2013, 02:16 PM
yeah, no worries. you just have to release that energy and better j/o than be stressed or treat your gf bad as a result. just let the steam out.
btw if you have taken photos of your gf, all the more reason to j/o to them. that way you can enjoy yourself with her and not some porn chick haha :) I know I do ;)
danny_13
June 17th, 2013, 02:45 PM
Do whatever you want!
tovaris
June 17th, 2013, 04:19 PM
what kind of a question is that, afcores you are aloved who is there to forbid you.
If you feel zhat bad why not ask her to asist you?
Pontiac67
June 18th, 2013, 12:02 AM
Your 13...I hope you don't think you are cheating on her by masturbating..Masturbation is good practice to learn about your body and how to control your ejaculations so you don't cum to quickly. Plus it will help you be less horny when she is around you and it will lessen those unwanted erections.. I have heard guys keep masturbating even when they are married
DerBear
June 18th, 2013, 06:29 AM
Yes as it isn't cheating. It would be cheating if you did it with other people.
RTU94
June 18th, 2013, 07:20 AM
wank about your gf?
Fanta_Lover44
June 18th, 2013, 07:37 AM
Yeah of course you are dude, it's your choice though, you can carry on or you can stop. Shes not like going to not talk to you. Its 100% up to you if you tell her though :)
johnling09
June 18th, 2013, 08:33 AM
I know it sounds kinda weird but I sorta don't feel right about waking more I have a gf... I still do it loads but I feel guilty about doing it without her knowing
Of course you can.
Jeremy.D
June 18th, 2013, 10:26 AM
Why stop? I think it's definitely acceptable :)
johnsmith1
June 18th, 2013, 11:34 AM
Heck yeah. Keep doing it. Men do it even after they're married!
samsunglover
June 18th, 2013, 11:53 AM
yes no one said you can't
RunnerRunner
June 18th, 2013, 02:23 PM
you can do it if u want to. no one is going to stop u.
nDroid
June 18th, 2013, 02:45 PM
i used to do it when i had a girl... it's nothing serious really...but sometimes one can affect the other
teen.jpg
June 18th, 2013, 05:30 PM
Why wouldn't you be?
pyropilot1668
June 19th, 2013, 02:15 AM
Still allowed. Try thinking of her while you do it :yes:
Ballboy
June 19th, 2013, 02:38 AM
I think she might like to kno that u find her exciting that way.
Victor_14
June 19th, 2013, 03:08 AM
Theres nothing wrong, dont worry about it
JRwulf64
June 19th, 2013, 08:09 PM
So tell her that you do it and if she can accept it then dump her. Its a natural part of life and no one should be able to dictate whether or not you do it
Steveo1000
July 2nd, 2013, 12:12 PM
have her do it for you haha (;
steve102998
July 2nd, 2013, 03:19 PM
yeah still do it just not 2 porn
thisguy505
July 3rd, 2013, 12:51 PM
Of course. I don't see why your gf would mind anyways
Ddare28
July 3rd, 2013, 01:28 PM
You're still allowed to do it, nothing's wrong with it. It's up to you whether you carry on or if you stop though, do what feels right for you. If it's just because she doesn't know just talk to her about it.
Collins1
July 3rd, 2013, 03:13 PM
yes you can, and if your worried then tell her.
Hermes
July 4th, 2013, 05:53 AM
Your need to cum regularly won't have been reduced by getting a girlfriend. If you're having sex with her every day then I wouldn't expect you'd often feel the need to masturbate. If you're not doing any kind of sexual activity together that results in you cumming, or are only doing it once a week or so then of course you are likely to need to masturbate the rest of the time.
Zanman11
July 5th, 2013, 11:35 PM
I don't see why you can't..,
kthon50
July 5th, 2013, 11:48 PM
Yeah you are absolutely allowed too
Camilox716
July 6th, 2013, 12:07 AM
I don't see why not :)
beach_boy_100
July 6th, 2013, 03:36 AM
yea do it all you want just dont tell her LOL
FroBro16
July 6th, 2013, 11:36 AM
You're totally fine with still masturbating. I've had a gf for 4 years and I still masturbate all the time. It's a natural thing to do
SacredB
July 6th, 2013, 12:32 PM
Of course, you can't let all that sexual tension build up when your girlfriend isn't around bro! go ahead and have at it, she probably expects it.
Stuey1
July 6th, 2013, 12:37 PM
yes its fine
isiah_
July 6th, 2013, 02:30 PM
I believe it's still fine to masturbate, there's no law that says you can't do so. Haha.
jayjay's toocool
July 6th, 2013, 05:53 PM
YEs your cool bro
FantasticlyMagic
July 7th, 2013, 04:16 AM
Yes? If you were masturbating with another female, I would say no, but it is just you alone so I think that it is perfectly fine if you masturbate. When you are dating if you are just masturbating alone you are clear, if you are having sexual relations with other girls... you are kinda dumb for A) having a girlfriend or B) having the relationships with other girls
torcon4421
July 7th, 2013, 07:41 PM
You're still allowed. It's up to you whether you carry on or if you stop though, do what feels right. If it's just because she doesn't know why don't you just tell her.
i agree with this guy totally
Ishamael
July 8th, 2013, 12:24 AM
of course you can. many married couples still masturbate while they are alone. nothing to feel guilty about. If you want you can even masturbate with your girl friend to make it more fun.
ChicagoBlackhawksFan
July 9th, 2013, 04:09 PM
Yes. Who knows your gf might masturbate as well!
Morgoth42
July 9th, 2013, 04:56 PM
As most of the others have said if your worried about what she thinks definatly tell her. If your worried that it woul ruin something then don't or stop. But haven seen what happens to the other kids, granted i'm in High School so things tend to be dramatic, the gf will be really upset if you don't tell her and someone lets any information slip. But on that same token it is still your right to do what you want. If she is truly a good gf then she can't say anything as to your choosing to jackoff or not.
Steveo1000
July 9th, 2013, 05:02 PM
There is nothing wrong with it man! Infact see if she will do it with/for you haha :P
Grimfever
July 9th, 2013, 06:03 PM
Its totally up to you whether you do it or not,,, unless she is telling you not to.
Jamaicob
July 9th, 2013, 07:34 PM
of course you are!
BenjiCleland
July 9th, 2013, 08:13 PM
That fact shouldn't stop you
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