what time does shoulder width increase usually??

[YOYOYOhomie]

i have this little problem.. my hips are like the same width as my shoulders.. ill post a picture...

when are my shoulders supposed to grow in width?? my hips look really big because my shoulders arnt big enough... will this EVER change?
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see the wide hips?? :@ :@ :@
im actually really embarrased to take my shirt off in public because of them... and when all my frends do i cant :(

[Gumleaf]

i believe this often happens later in puberty so i don't think you have anything to worry about.

[MoveAlong]

there's no time when anything's SUPPOSED to grow. It just happens when you get it, cause people get different things at different times. Plus I mean look at you, there's nothing wrong with that, you're built so you should show that off anyway and the shoulder width will come with time

[Serenity]

Ok, dude, if YOU can't take your shirt off b/c you're embarrassed, then NO ONE should be allowed to take their shirt off. I think you're stressing a lot over a little issue that really is not at all a big deal. You're still growing and I'm sure your body will work itself out in the coming years. For the moment, though, just accept yourself for who you are and be proud of what you have! Lol and trust me, you have plenty to be proud of.

Why are you so self conscious, anyway? I mean has anyone ever actually commented on your shoulders or hips before? Because honestly if you hadn't said anything, I wouldn't have noticed. Even after reading your post, it still isn't like you're this awkward guy who's totally out of proportion. You're fine.

[YOYOYOhomie]

i reallyyy appreciate the positive things you are all saying :)

but i just dont know why... everytime i take my shirt off i get really paranoid that EVERYBODY is looking and EVERYBODY is like laughing at me or sumthing.. i dont really kno how to explain it.. just think about something u hate about urself... and are self concious about... and then ull get it.... the whole reason i started to work out was to get rid of this problem but it hasnt helped really...

but im glad youre saying that the shoulders tend to develop later in puberty..


thats a big load of my ''SHOULDERS'' lol... (btw.. thats a joke.... stupid i know ahaha :P )

[Serenity]

lol well I think it's safe to say that pretty much EVERYONE is really self conscious, especially during puberty as our bodies develop and change, etc etc. You just need to learn to be comfortable with yourself. :daisy:

[surenix]

Just be your self you shouldn't be self conscious, and plus with those abs nobody will be looking at your shoulders.

[crazyguy]

You look fine, don't worry. If anyone is looking they are either another guy who wishes they looked that good or a girl checking you out

[futuresexologist]

it is kinda like the penis size issue... guys get embarrased the first time their g/f sees their penis

i guess for you it is the same with you shoulder and hip size?


i don't think anyone will notice, you have a hot body.