Im bi but i dont know how to come out!

[the_j_man]

Hi, my name is Justin. I am 14. I am bi but I have NO idea how to come out to my parents. Someone plz help!!

[Farewell]

I suppose you don't necessarily have to tell them if you don't want to. If it's eating you alive by not telling them or if they directly ask you, then I wouldn't worry about it too much. ;p

If you do decide to tell them though, just be straight and to-the-point with it. However they may choose to accept it is up to them. You're still their son and they will probably always love you for who you are and not what your sexual interests are.

Hope this helps! :-)

[the_j_man]

Thanks alot! This helped...bunches

[Sasha M]

First of all this is introductions, this should be posted in some sort of sexual fourm or freinds and family or somthing.

Just be OPEN about it bro.... All you need to know.

[Skyline]

This would fit better in Teen Sexuality.

Introductions :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Altiier]

I came out to mine about it a week ago, my mom was cool with it... I guess my Dad didn't like the thought of his son sucking dick, hasn't talked to me since :/

[Farewell]

Thanks alot! This helped...bunches

I sincerely hope so. :-)

[DepartInSecret]

I don't know if you have told anyone else yet, but I found that after I had told a few friends and had some practice with it that is was much easier to talk about it... not just to my parents but also other people. Also having friends that where there for moral support was good.
There is no super easy way to do it I guess but just say it... sit them down, together or separately, and just try and tell them. It inst easy, but after you do it it feels great.
Good Luck :D

[the_j_man]

It was amazing! So today I thought I would tell a couple of friends. The first person I told (this was over txt) was my best friend. She was super supportive. She was so excited that I came out to her first. The seccond person I told was another super close friend. She was supportive and told me that she was actually bi as well! She told me that she would be there for me and that made me feel great. This is all i have done so far. Thanks for everyones help!

[Ariesboy]

It was amazing! So today I thought I would tell a couple of friends. The first person I told (this was over txt) was my best friend. She was super supportive. She was so excited that I came out to her first. The seccond person I told was another super close friend. She was supportive and told me that she was actually bi as well! She told me that she would be there for me and that made me feel great. This is all i have done so far. Thanks for everyones help!

True friends will always be accepting and supportive.
When I comes to telling your parents, I would say the sooner the better. You dont wanna wait too long and have them feel like they did something to make you not wanna tell them. But this is a big step for you that has to be taken. So be honest and truthful with them and everything will go good.

I hoped I helped ;)

[StoneColdNicky]

If you do decide to tell them though, just be straight...

I found this funny. I guess I'm immature.

My advice would actually be the opposite to what others have said. If you don't know how, maybe you should wait until you DO know how, or at least have a better idea.

Is there a need to rush it?

[DerBear]

I have to say unless you really are sure you want to come out then I wouldn't rush things. I guess really to come out, do you think your parents will treat you differently about it? If they don't then I'd just say tell them normally, you don't need to make a big deal out of it and have them sit down etc.

[Farewell]

The seccond person I told was another super close friend. She was supportive and told me that she was actually bi as well!

Wow, what are the odds of that?! xD

[jaxian rhyder]

Id say tell them as fast as u can and go to ur room most likely they'll come after u and say something

[Purplebunny]

Hi, my name is Justin. I am 14. I am bi but I have NO idea how to come out to my parents. Someone plz help!!


I would advise waiting till you where older. Some parents are absoluty horrible. The moment that they hear that their child is gay, completely changes their attitude towards their children. Its sickening. I'm not saying all parents are like this though. Some are very open minded and accepting.

[Purplebunny]

One way that you can sort of find out is by mentioning or bringing up the fact that someone you know is gay. See how they react to this information. Then you will have a better understanding of their views.

[StoneColdNicky]

One way that you can sort of find out is by mentioning or bringing up the fact that someone you know is gay. See how they react to this information. Then you will have a better understanding of their views.

This dude has a really good idea.

[canadaski]

Don't bother telling them unless you really want to. If they can't take it, it's their own fault for being intellectually inferior to you.

Just say "I'm attracted to guys and girls. It may be hard to understand how that is possible, though that's my situation and it would be a hell of a lot easier for all of us if you didn't refute that information."

It's important that you stay firm and strong in your statement to balance out their possible anger, sadness, guilt and other emotions they may be feeling. It will assert that you have some power of your own and are not ruled by them quite so strictly.

[justin 13]

Y u have this urge to come out? Just wondering cuz Im gay and I dont need 2 do it. My Dad is not ready to listen anyway.

[PinkFloyd]

I don't think you really HAVE to tell them, but if they ask, then just say that you're bi. They should accept you no matter what.

[the_j_man]

Y u have this urge to come out? Just wondering cuz Im gay and I dont need 2 do it. My Dad is not ready to listen anyway.

The thing is, I dont want them to find out by themselves. I think they would be mad that I didnt tell them...

[Trae329]

Now I'm not trying to say that you are not bi but I hope you realize that you are 14, and hormones really act up since you are going through puberty at this time.

I think I am too, if you look at my thread -- but it's hard to tell at this point unless you are out of that "phase" and / or if you wouldn't think twice about having a physical and emotional relationship with the same sex.

Just my 2 cents.