My dads friend

[luckyjbee]

My dad has a close friend who all my friends have a crush on. I have a couple of questions and situations I need help with.

1st- Is it normal for me to get dripping wet and sooo horny that I have to go to the bathroom and masterbate everytime he comes over.

2nd- He comes over to watch movies quite often and I make sure that the only seat left for him is next to me on the small couch. I turn the air way down and when he complains about being cold i offer to share the couch throw with him. I usually lay with my legs across his lap so I can feel his bulge so this makes it very easy for me to rub myself or even grind on whatever part of him is touching me down there. I have brought myself to several orgasms this way. I dont think he has noticed because he usually falls asleep. One time he woke up while I was rubbing his bulge and masterbating. I stopped unitl I thought he was asleep again then brought myself to orgasm on his hand that I strategically placed down there. I noticed he got very hard and I am not sure what to do?

Curious 16/F

Is this a sign? Does he like me that way? I often dream of giving him a bj or even loosing my cherry to him one day after he picks me up from school. He is a pretty decent size down there and I dont know how bad it would hurt. If so how could I prepare for him?

[SammyG17]

1. Yes, many girls find older men attractive. There is something to say about human evolution. Long rant short - Younger girls are capable of surviving childbirth more easily, and have the chance to produce more offspring (usually starting at the first sign of pubic hair, some cultures prefer for a girl to never have a period so as to "produce as many children as possible"). Older men are in turn able to provide more for the family. Stronger, sometimes smarter, and have established hunting trails. Also they are able to protect the family unit more. Basically a man in his mid 20's - mid 30's, is a better match for a young teen 12-18, based on human instinct/evolution. So you are just doing what nature intended.

2. This sounds stalkerish, and might get him, or you, into a lot of trouble. If you are doing this just to impress your friends that isn't good. Also, what would happen if your dad found out about it? Would he encourage his friend to be with his daughter, or flip out? If your dad seems ok with his friend dating his daughter, then maybe you need to write the friend a letter saying you have a crush on him, and see what he does. But I have a suspicion that your dad would not approve, even if it was your idea.

You are 16, and from it seems pretty normal / healthy. So nothing wrong with that. Just be careful about things. They say girls get abused by guys, but if you only think of this guy as a piece of meat, just try to consider his feelings too.

Dreaming and fantasizing are good things too, but a very slippery slope when they start to become reality. As far as if it would hurt or not, every girl is different, and every situation different. There may be some discomfort, and you might not feel any pain at all.

[luckyjbee]

Thank you for the advice and knoweledge. I will definately think about all of it. I am finding it very hard to resist the urge though. He is here fot our fathersday bbq and it seems he is eyeing me in my bikini. Im soo wet its practically dripping now.

[Harry Smith]

oh wow, you've already posted on this before. One thread per topic pease

And this is storytelling which isn't allowed, we're not a sex forum :locked: