How should I overcome shyness?

[Gen-Kun]

If there's one thing I've been pondering for the past month, it's how am I going to overcome my shyness problem. Now, it's not a shyness that's towards people, but it is towards girls.
I know girls aren't different species that are alien to us males, but in my case, I'm tired of not being liked or having a girl have a crush on me. I now realize that I don't talk to girls because I'm so shy towards them. I get nervous, tense, and sometimes, even scared when talking to girls. I know I have to overcome my shyness someday, but I have no way of doing it. Can any of you help me out?

[Miri]

If there's one thing I've been pondering for the past month, it's how am I going to overcome my shyness problem. Now, it's not a shyness that's towards people, but it is towards girls.
I know girls aren't different species that are alien to us males, but in my case, I'm tired of not being liked or having a girl have a crush on me. I now realize that I don't talk to girls because I'm so shy towards them. I get nervous, tense, and sometimes, even scared when talking to girls. I know I have to overcome my shyness someday, but I have no way of doing it. Can any of you help me out?

Maybe try talking to girls about very casual, stress free things. Like, ask a girl about something school related. The more little encounters like this you have, the higher your confidence level will get.

[Gen-Kun]

Maybe try talking to girls about very casual, stress free things. Like, ask a girl about something school related. The more little encounters like this you have, the higher your confidence level will get.
That's what I try, and I usually get very nervous doing it.
You're right. If I try it more and more, I'll eventually get used to doing it, and won't be shy anymore. Thank you. ;)

[Miserabilia]

I know exactly how you feel man... I am not shy at all (around people I know) but around girls I am super shy and awkward...
There is a girl ive known and had a crush on for 2 years and i basicly talked to her like 2 times...

[The-Chosen-Hero]

Try texting and facebooking girls that are your friends or meet new girls to be a little more relax. Try Meetme.com. It is website where teens can go for dating. Usually there is ton of girls that do rates, say one favorite thing about you, and 'admire' you etc etc... They sometimes also put you for random dating. You can definitely go there to get a boost in confidence. Just don't take things to heart. Hey you just might meet someone there that you like. The only problem is whether or not the confidence in you to take that chance is within you.

[Blablabla36489]

I'm in the same problem as you are.I want to talk to the girl,but when she comes to me,I scare and confuse.

[Sharona]

Nudism
Nothing works better for self consciousness issues

[Jasperf]

If there's one thing I've been pondering for the past month, it's how am I going to overcome my shyness problem. Now, it's not a shyness that's towards people, but it is towards girls.
I know girls aren't different species that are alien to us males, but in my case, I'm tired of not being liked or having a girl have a crush on me. I now realize that I don't talk to girls because I'm so shy towards them. I get nervous, tense, and sometimes, even scared when talking to girls. I know I have to overcome my shyness someday, but I have no way of doing it. Can any of you help me out?

Tbh you just have to use your balls haha (: what's the worst that can happen...

[Nocturnal_Insomniac]

We don't bite, promise... Anyway, is there anyway you can get to know some girls that have similar interests to you, such as a club (like at school or your local YC) or a website maybe? Cause that's a great way to get to know some girls, without pressure, and although they wont necessarily develop a crush on you, the benefit to talking to girls in a online forum is that they don't know anything about you previously, so they have no expectations of who you are, and once you're more confident, then you can work on getting to know girls who could interact with on an everyday basis, without the separation of the internet

[Lost in the Echo]

Questions for Both Boys & Girls :arrow: Relationships & Dating.
This is more relevant there. :)

[CyrustheGreat]

Nudism
Nothing works better for self consciousness issues

hahaha, you sure sharona? it moght *possibly* make ot worse! (gasp!) haha

[Sharona]

No not actually - most boys are too shy to get hard the first bunch of visits so if that was your reasoning do f stress

It's very open and accepting and a great way to get rid of self conscious feelings

[Skycaptain124]

for me its not really shyness its just that my disorders are keeping me from doing it (mostly like Aspergers and bipolar disorder that do it)

[chelsealivin]

just be yourself right?