Seems like sex is just to overwhelming and not worth the risk?

[giggles2]

Seems like to me from the responses that sex is too overwhelming and not worth the risks? Think I will just stay a virgin for a while.

[Sharona]

Good idea if that's how u feel :)

[Abgail 16]

Can't argue with that.

[Miri]

Stay a virgin until the right guy comes along. Then it will feel good, and will be worth it.

If you do it just for the sake of doing it, then it might not feel worth it.

[Elysium]

Along with everyone else's advice, don't over think it.

[Pensive]

Seems like to me from the responses that sex is too overwhelming and not worth the risks? Think I will just stay a virgin for a while.

When you are older and have been dating the right guy/girl/inbetween for months, and you love each other, it won't be overwhelming - and the risks will be mitigated.

You shouldn't have sex with a guy, until you are mature enough and prepared for having a baby. Even with condoms and pills, they are only 99.9% effective. Accidents and rips do happen.

On that note, get him to fill the condom with water afterwards - if it leaks you'll know it split. Simply take a morning after pill (:

Sex with the right person is great, but it only lasts an hour or few. You only get one childhood, your education is only free to a certain age. Make the most of it (;

P.S. Masturbating is free xD

[KaEl.]

Completely agree with this. Having sex just because you feel like you have to, more than anything, is damaging to your feelings afterwards.

[GigglyAbby]

I can't disagree with the advice given because it seems like that sadly you aren't ready for sex. It's your personal choice when you become sexually active and only you can decide to do it and I hope it's when you're prepared for it and when you're with the right guy.

Why do you think I am not ready for sex? Just curious?

Sadly -- your questions about sex and the fact you seemed overanxious came across to some of us that you didn't seem ready. Plus -- you even admitted that you wanted to wait because you stated [I]"Seems like sex is just to overwhelming and not worth the risk?" and you "wanted to stay a virgin for awhile"

[giggles2]

Why do you think I am not ready for sex? Just curious?