I don't like it when my mom and I get along, am I crazy?

[Cicero]

So most of my life, my mom and I never got along. We always argued and fought. So she made me live with my dad and now it's been 10 days that I've seen her, today I came over. And she's being nice to me. For some strange reason, it annoys me. I don't like feeling this way, but I just do. Wy is this? Is this normal?

[Stronk Serb]

Yes, I do not like getting along with my mom also. But keep in mind that I am not the most sane person in this forum.

[Miserabilia]

Depends on your age. I always used to be jollly around my mom but now she just annoys me, puberty sigh

[KimuraWannabe116]

I guess it's because you are used to always fighing verberly and you are not used to getting along with her. All I have to say is this. Only time will tell.

[DerBear]

I think that its because you're use to fighting you've constantly got a guard up which makes you very cautious of getting along with your mother. You aren't crazy its just a reaction and I think if you were to have this on a daily basis --you and your mother getting along -- then I think you will find that you can get along and really communicate better and you won't feel so weird when you and your mum are getting along.

Change always feels weird and you've experienced a change and it obviously will take some getting used to.

[GigglyAbby]

^Agree^ Maybe talking to a neutral party like a therapist who can help you adjust to the change with your mom and hopefully work on the past issues.

[Rina]

Like the people before me said, it's probably because you're used to arguing with her that you feel nervous when it's the complete opposite. It probably seems fake and put-on to you. Doesn't make you crazy, though.

IMO, people are usually nicer when you don't see them as often. Like me with my sister. We used to fight often, but now that we see each other less, we're very nice to each other. I'm sure we'd annoy each other if we spent too long together, though.