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June 15th, 2013, 10:48 PM
This might be the 5th thread straight I've posted looking for advice but so be it, its really important.

I really like this guy, and I know he's straight so I dont have any chance with him but that's not the point. I've been talking to him a lot more recently, and I think I'm ruining everything.

Ever since I told him I liked him, he's really been messing with my emotions. At one point I would be mad at him, then upset, and then happy. I think I'm losing my mind guys. I can't even think straight when I'm talking to him because my mind races and I get ahead of myself and end up disappointing myself.

To make matters worse, I think he doesn't really want to talk to me anymore. I've started talking to him nearly everyday now (I know I know, bad idea.) and he always has an excuse why he can't talk. I usually just let it go, but now its kind of upsetting me. I wouldnt know how to explain it but talking to him actually makes me happier, in a way. Its like there's somebody I actually want to be with. I think I might just be obsessed :eek:

What should I do guys? Its all I've been thinking about recently, and for some strange reason he's made me feel a lot less "depressed". But now I think he might not even want to be friends anymore.

WHY IS THIS SOOOO HARD :what::what::what:
unnamed94
June 15th, 2013, 11:04 PM
if you told him you liked him but you still want to be friends, then act like if you didnt ever say anything (i mean act how you were around him before you told him). from what you are saying you are kinda obssesed and he is probably feeling you are all over him. Let him have his own space and dont mess up the friendship you have with him. dont lose what you have because of that.

btw when you say "he's really been messing with my emotions. At one point I would be mad at him, then upset, and then happy" do you mean its something he did that made you feel that way?
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June 15th, 2013, 11:12 PM
btw when you say "he's really been messing with my emotions. At one point I would be mad at him, then upset, and then happy" do you mean its something he did that made you feel that way?

Yeah lol, I'm not insane. There are things he says that pisses me off. But I'm not the kind of person who can stay mad at anyone, even when I should :yawn:
StoneColdNicky
June 16th, 2013, 12:03 AM
I agree with Unnamed94. I know you said it makes you feel better to be hanging out with him like old times, but he might still be feeling uncomfortable from finding out that you think of him as more than a friend. Try spending less time around each other, but let him know you're still there, and still want to hang out as friends sometimes.
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June 16th, 2013, 09:47 AM
I agree with Unnamed94. I know you said it makes you feel better to be hanging out with him like old times, but he might still be feeling uncomfortable from finding out that you think of him as more than a friend. Try spending less time around each other, but let him know you're still there, and still want to hang out as friends sometimes.

But if I do that, then there's nobody else I actually even want to talk to. Nearly everybody else pisses me off, or they just have better people to hang around.
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June 16th, 2013, 12:06 PM
Update: Its not too important, but I thought it was pretty interesting. We were texting yesterday and this is the conversation we had;

Me: Can I ask you a question?
Him: Yeah what is it ?
Me: What were you thinking when I first told you I liked you? Be honest ...
Him: I really wasn't thinking lol
Me: Lmao but were you surprised though?
Him: Not really lol
Me: So you thought I liked you before I told you? o.o (At this point I was actually pretty surprised to see him say that.)
Him: Yeah I kinda did
Me: Why?
Him: U acted like it

It made me laugh because I didn't know I made it obvious. And it also shows that we can still be friends, even after all of this. :D
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June 16th, 2013, 05:53 PM
Can't believe I'm doing this but ...

*bump*
StoneColdNicky
June 17th, 2013, 09:58 PM
Well, I'm glad that you can still be friends, but you'll still have to deal with being only friends. I hope that will be enough for you.
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June 20th, 2013, 01:15 AM
Well, I'm glad that you can still be friends, but you'll still have to deal with being only friends. I hope that will be enough for you.

Honestly, its not. It hurts a lot, and I cant even think of him as just a friend anymore. Its not the same feeling anymore.

It used to be enough to be just friends, but now its harder. My feelings are deeper now.

I guess this is when he starts to hate me, right? It wont be the first time. :(