don't wanna turn gay (straight Guys)

[crazyBoyjJ]

I don't wanna turn gay but somehow I can't get any girls and my friends say I can't get a girl as a joke but sometimes it gets a little overboard and goes to my head and ppl keeping calling me ugly but I know I'm handsome idk plz help me

[Harry Smith]

Firstly you can't turn gay, secondly gay people aren't gay simply because we cannot get girls.

Puberty for boys :arrow: Teen sexuality

[Ariesboy]

Your not turning gay you are just insecure. Its a confidence thing not about your sexuality.

[Mob Boss]

Exactly what Harry said; you can't turn any sexuality. If you can't get girls/ a girlfriend that doesn't make you gay, or warrant you to think differently of your sexuality. You're still young. At 14 you shouldn't be so hung up on getting a girlfriend. And your friends laughing about you not having a girlfriend just shows their immaturity and that, they themselves, probably shouldn't even have one based on maturity alone. If it happens, cool. You shouldn't be so distressed by it, though. As for the people calling you names, don't let it get to you. If you think you're handsome, that's all that matters. Dating will come at it's own time. Again, though, you can't change your sexuality.

[crazyBoyjJ]

Exactly what Harry said; you can't turn any sexuality. If you can't get girls/ a girlfriend that doesn't make you gay, or warrant you to think differently of your sexuality. You're still young. At 14 you shouldn't be so hung up on getting a girlfriend. And your friends laughing about you not having a girlfriend just shows their immaturity and that, they themselves, probably shouldn't even have one based on maturity alone. If it happens, cool. You shouldn't be so distressed by it, though. As for the people calling you names, don't let it get to you. If you think you're handsome, that's all that matters. Dating will come at it's own time. Again, though, you can't change your sexuality.
Thanks

[Twilly F. Sniper]

This is a problem to a lot, but you are not "becoming" gay, it is several factors that change this, and sometimes, puberty also causes "gay" behaviors.

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That mindset is similar to people who think being gay is a choice. While being gay is all dandy and fine, its not a choice.

That being said, you don't become gay. You either are or your not.

And why should someone else's comments or opinions matter? Just be you. That's all that's important.

[steellord321]

I sure wish someone like you could turn gay so you could see it's not such a big deal that you have to run to forums panicking the second a girl turns you down.

[Justdance613]

Just wait it out and you will find the right girl.

[RazorEdge]

Nobody can turn gay, and you're only 14, focus on your studying, relationships are good if you can have them but really shouldn't be a focus in life. I would avoid those people making fun of you, as well.

[Purplebunny]

My friend was just like this. He struggled all throughout highschool to get a girlfriend, and he thought that calming to be gay would be an easier method.

Point being, just because you have not found that special girl yet, does not mean you need to try to be gay all of a sudden.

[jaxian rhyder]

Just because u can't get girls doesn't mean ur gay try different methods