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June 15th, 2013, 10:46 AM
OK, I'm in the opposite of this situation, and I want to know how you would react to it.

OK, so say you are friends with another guy. You assume its just like any other friendship, and there's nothing to really think about. But then you find out that your friend has a crush on you. How do you react? Do you let him down easy? Do you ignore it? Do you stop being friends with him?

Would the friendship change for you? For better or worse?

Do you still feel comfortable around him?

boring_guy
June 15th, 2013, 01:29 PM
I'd feel bad because I'd have to tell him I'm straight and can't make him happy. Overall though I think it'd strengthen a friendship for me.

PinkFloyd
June 15th, 2013, 01:34 PM
I would let him down the nicest way possible and try my best to not let it affect our friendship. I would honestly feel a little uncomfortable around him, but I wouldn't show it.

crazyBoyjJ
June 15th, 2013, 01:39 PM
I would say I'm straight sorry dude but this doesn't happen where I live so I'm cool

Miserabilia
June 15th, 2013, 04:31 PM
I aggree with the above, id just tell him I don't feel the same, but comfort him and stil be friends

teenageapplelover
June 15th, 2013, 07:12 PM
I'd feel really bad. I'm a flirt, I probably would have led him on.

For his sake, I'd almost want to end the friendship because I would end up being a tease about it and it would just hurt him.

Also depends how close of friends we were––maybe it wouldn't be a big deal. I think it really depends on the people.

ugaboy
June 15th, 2013, 07:29 PM
If I knew what I was! If I was straight, I would let him down as easy as possible, and work my hardest to not let it hurt our friendship. I guess it would be awkward, but I would try not to show that, and kinda put in my mind that at least someone liked me.

Austin2
June 19th, 2013, 09:50 PM
Let him know you value your relationship as friends but you're not interested in anything past that with him or any other guy.

jaxian rhyder
June 20th, 2013, 02:01 PM
OK, I'm in the opposite of this situation, and I want to know how you would react to it.

OK, so say you are friends with another guy. You assume its just like any other friendship, and there's nothing to really think about. But then you find out that your friend has a crush on you. How do you react? Do you let him down easy? Do you ignore it? Do you stop being friends with him?

Would the friendship change for you? For better or worse?

Do you still feel comfortable around him?

Well that depends if u are curios play along if not tell him he can like u that way but u don't like him that way

Lovelife090994
June 21st, 2013, 01:11 PM
I wouldn't end the friendship, I'd say I don't feel the same and I hope he understands.

Purplebunny
June 23rd, 2013, 10:24 AM
I was in the exact situation as you. Its really not easy to let a friend down like that. The best thing to do is be honest with them. If they are a true friend, they will understand. :)